Ma mua, hiki ke ʻike ʻia nā kaikamahine me nā kāhiko nani a me ka hana ʻana i ka pena ʻia o nā moʻo mo ka hale kiʻi kiʻi. I kēia manawa, ʻike nā mea paona i nā poʻe a pau a i ka ʻike o ka Pūnaewele holoʻokoʻa me nā manaʻo like ʻole.
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Ua hana mākou iā mākou iho e ʻike i loko o ke aniani, ʻaʻole i ke kiʻi
Ua kākau ʻo ka mea kiʻi kiʻi kiʻi kaulana ʻo Kim Ayrs i kāna kolamu i ka makahiki i hala aku nei e pili ana i ka 90% o nā mea paʻi kiʻi leʻaleʻa ʻole me kā lākou nānā ʻana i nā kiʻi - a ʻike ka manaʻo iā lākou iho ʻaʻole he kiʻi. Mahalo nā helu helu! I mea e hoʻomaopopo ai i ka mea, ua hana ʻo Kim i kahi hoʻokolohua: ua lawe ʻo ia i nā kiʻi maʻamau a me nā hiʻohiʻona e like me nā poʻe, a laila hāʻawi lākou e koho i kahi kiʻi āna i makemake ai. ʻO ka hapa nui o nā mea hoʻohana i makemake i ke kiʻi hoʻohālike.
Ua wehewehe ʻia ka mea maoli: i loko o ko mākou ola ke ʻike nei mākou iā mākou iho he nui i ka aniani, a hopu ke kiʻi kiʻi i ke kiʻi maoli i ko mākou kiʻi maoli - ke ʻano o ka poʻe a puni e ʻike iā mākou. Ma muli o ke ʻano o ko mākou mau maka he asymmetrical, ke alo i ke aniani a i ke kiʻi no mākou no nā hiʻohiʻona ʻelua. Ke hoʻopaʻa nei i ko mākou kiʻi a me ke kiʻi hoʻohālike i ko mākou mau lima, e like me ka maikaʻi loa (a i ʻole ka ʻike maoli) i ke kiʻi o ka lua. I ka manawa like, koho aku nā mea'ē aʻe i ke kiʻi maʻamau. ʻO ka manawa pinepine loa, hiki iā mākou ke ʻike i kēia hopena i ka wā o ka kūkākūkā o nā kiʻi paʻi kiʻi: e manaʻo kēlā me kēia o nā mea e komo i ka maikaʻi o nā mea a pau i ke kiʻi, koe wale nō.
“I kēlā me kēia lā - mai ka wā kamaliʻi, ke nānā nei mākou i ke aniani. Kūleʻa mākou i ko mākou mau niho, ʻūlū, hana i nā hana hoʻohua. I ka wā i hala, ua hoʻomaʻamaʻa mākou i ke kiʻi ma ka aniani, a hoʻāliʻi ka ʻano i ke aloha. ʻO ia ke kumu i makemake ai mākou i ko mākou kiʻi ma ka aniani i ʻoi aku i ke kiʻi, ”wahi a Pamela Routledge, ka luna o ka Center for the Study of Media Psychology.
ʻO ka hoʻokolohua ʻo Ayrs i hana mua ʻia e nā ʻepekema mai ke Kulanui o Wisconsin ma Madison ma 1977. A laila ua koho nā mea noiʻi i ke kiʻi o ko lākou kiʻi i ke ʻano he nani loa, aʻo nā mea aloha i koho i ke kiʻi maoli. I ka manawa e noi ʻia ai nā poʻe ʻikepili e wehewehe i ko lākou koho, kāhea lākou i ka kihi, māmā, ke kālai o ke poʻo, a pēlā aku nā kumu, ʻoiai ua lawe ʻia nā kiʻi ʻelua mai ka like ʻole.
No laila inā maopopo ʻole ʻoe i kāu kiʻi paʻi a makemake ʻoe e hoʻoponopono hou ʻia, e hoʻāʻo e hoʻokele i loko o kekahi kiʻi kiʻi kiʻi a i ʻole ka liʻiliʻi me ke kōkua o kēia lawelawe pūnaewele mua.
ʻIke mākou iā mākou ke nānā aku i ka nani i ka nani
ʻIchlelo ʻo Nicholas Epley, kahi loea e kūlou ana ma Chicago, ʻaʻole maopopo iā mākou ka ʻike: "ʻAʻole like ke kiʻi ma ko mākou mau manaʻo i ka mea i loaʻa maoli iā mākou." Ua hoʻokō ʻo Epley i kāna hōʻoia ʻana i kekahi hoʻokolohua i paʻi ʻia ma ka 2008 i loko o ka puke pai Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin. Ua lawe ka ʻepekema ʻepekema i nā kiʻi o nā mea pane, e hoʻololi ana i ko lākou hoihoi i Photoshop i nā 10% e hoʻonui, e hilinaʻi nei i nā kiʻi o nā mea nani kaulana. Eia kekahi, pono ke koho i nā mea i noi ʻia i ko lākou kiʻi maoli mai kekahi mau kiʻi. ʻO ka hapa nui o nā poʻe i koho i ke kiʻi e 20% ʻoi aku ka nani ma mua o ke kiʻi maoli. Ma ka manawa like, i ka manawa e pono ai e koho i nā kiʻi noiʻi o ka poʻe noiʻi e hoʻonohonoho ana i ka hoʻokolohua, ʻoi aku ka ʻoi o nā mea i loaʻa.
Hōʻololi ʻia kā mākou kiʻi maoli i nā optics
Hiki i ke kāmele ke hoʻoweliweli i ke kiʻi: ʻO ka mea mua, ua hoʻohuli ʻia ma o kahi ʻōnaehana paʻakikī o ka lens, a i ka lua, ʻokoʻa nā lōʻihi o ka lens o ke lens e hōʻike i ko mākou maka ʻokoʻa. Ma mua ke kiʻi o kēlā me kēia kiʻi i ke ʻano o ka "distort distance" - ke kokoke loa ke kumuhana i ke kāmela a me ka liʻiliʻi ʻo ka lihi ākea, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā mea i loaʻa ma nā wahi like ʻole o ke kāmela, ʻo ia hoʻi, nā wahi ākea e hoʻokaʻawale a ʻike ʻia i nā mamao mamao. . ^ E Ha yM. ʻO kēia mau mea āpau, ma ke ʻano he kānāwai, e alakaʻi ai i ka hoʻololi ʻana i ke kaulike o ka maka. Ua wehewehe ʻo teacher psychology o University University ʻo Daniel Baker i kēia hopena ma kāna blog me ka hoʻohana ʻana i kahi hoʻohālikelike selfie: nā hiʻohiʻona helehelena e pili kokoke ana i ke kāmele ke nānā aku, ʻoi aku ka nui o ke kiʻi holoʻokoʻa. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo nā lōʻihi lōʻihi pōkole, hele aku ka maka, no laila ʻoi aku ka mamao o ke kāmele mai kou alo, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka helehelena.
Manaʻo ʻo Pamela Routledge ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻohe mea huna e pehea e lawe ai i kahi selfie kūpono aʻe, ke ʻole pehea e lawe ai i nā kiʻi hou aku. "ʻO nā poʻe e lawe i ka nui o lākou mau ʻoluʻolu a pau ka ʻoluʻolu e ʻike lākou i ko lākou mau kiʻi," i ʻōlelo ai ʻo ia. E hoʻāʻo e hana i kou kiʻi ma nā kiʻi ma ke ʻano like me ka mea i hoʻohana ʻia ai i ke kiʻi ma ka aniani, a laila hāʻule nā mea āpau i ka wahi.
A ʻoi aku 6 mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no ka lawe ʻana i ka selfie maikaʻi aʻe
Ua hiki i nā kānaka ʻepekema ke hoʻokūʻē a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi hema o ka maka ma mua o ka ʻākau. ʻO nā mea kākau o ke aʻo ʻana, i paʻi ʻia ma ka nūpepa Experimental Brain Research, i hana i kahi hoʻokolokolo o nā haumāna ma Wake Forest University, e hāʻawi ana e koho i nā kiʻi hoihoi loa i nā kāne a me nā wahine. I ka hopena, ʻo ke kiʻi o nā wahine me ka hapa hema o ka maka i lilo i mea hoihoi i 78% o nā hihia, a me nā kiʻi kāne kāne me ka hapalua hema o ka maka i 56% o nā hihia. Ma waena o lākou ʻelua mau kiʻi maoli a me nā kiʻi hiʻohiʻona o nā maka.
Ma ka manawa like, ʻōlelo ka poʻe psychologists e pili ana ka ʻaoʻao hema o ke alo i ka ʻōpū, a ʻo ka ʻaoʻao ʻākau ka hōʻike like i nā ʻano like e like me ka hilinaʻi a me ke alakaʻi. No ia mea, e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hoʻouka ʻana i ke kiʻi ma ka ʻaoʻao hema o ka maka, a ma kahi pae hana.
ʻO nā maka ākea a me nā haumāna nui he mea huna ʻē aʻe o ka nani i nā kiʻi. Ua ʻike nā poʻe ʻepekema Dutch i ka nui o ka haumāna i pili pono i ka hilinaʻi i kekahi kanaka. Hōʻike lākou i nā poʻe o nā hoʻokolohua i kekahi mau wikiō me ka poʻe e alakaʻi nei: ma kekahi mau wikiō, hoʻonui ka poʻe noiʻi i ka nui o ka nui o nā mana nui, a ʻike ka poʻe e noiʻi ana e hilinaʻi lākou i kēia mau huapalapala.
Hiki i nā maka ke pane i ka paha kukui a i ʻole paha e hāʻawi i ka hopena o nā haumāna nui. No laila, e hoʻāʻo e hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka kukui a lawe paha i kekahi o nā kiʻi hoʻokolohua me ka uila.
Maʻaneʻi e ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i kahi kūlana kahi i kuhikuhi ai ke kiʻi kiʻi iā ʻoe i kahi maka mai ke kāmela. Akā ʻaʻole maikaʻi mau kēlā mau hoʻopunipuni. Ua ʻike nā mea noiʻi mai ka UK a me Australia i kahi nānā pololei i ke kāmeʻa ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka mea nānā.
ʻO nā mea kākau o ke noiʻi i koho kiʻi ʻia a hōʻike iā lākou i nā poʻe pane. A ʻo ka hopena, makemake nā mea noiʻi i kēlā mau hiʻohiʻona nāna i nānā pololei i ke kāmera. Ua hoʻopili ka poʻe ʻepekema kanaka i kahi nānā pololei me ka makemake e pili i ka mea e nānā. Inā makemake ʻoe e nānā hou aku i ke kiʻi, e hoʻomanaʻo pono iā ia.
Ua hana nā ʻepekema ʻepekema mai ke University of Bristol i kahi hoʻokolohua i hōʻike i ke ʻano hoʻonaninani ʻona ʻona o ka waiʻona i loko o ke koko e hoʻomaikaʻi i kahi kanaka i ke kiʻi. Ua paʻi kiʻi lākou i nā mea i komo ʻekolu manawa: ma hope, ma hope o ka inu a ma hope o ka nui o ka waiʻona. Ua hōʻike ʻia kekahi mau kiʻi i kahi pūʻulu o nā mea pane i ʻike ʻole i nā poʻe noiʻi ma mua. ʻO nā kiʻi hoihoi loa i kiʻi ʻia i kiʻi ʻia ma hope o kahi wai liʻiliʻi.
Ua wehewehe nā ʻepekema ʻepekema i kēia ʻike maoli e ka mea i lalo o ka mana o ka waiʻona, hoʻonaninani paha nā kānaka i ka hoʻomaha, a ʻo ka hoʻololi o ke kaʻe koko ke ʻano i ka ʻili.
Eia naʻe, mai kāpili. ʻO kekahi noiʻi ʻē aʻe ka ʻike o ka poʻe naʻauao ma mua o ka hana o ka waiʻona.
Hoʻokumu ka manaʻo o kahi kanaka i ka milliseconds mua a ʻike mākou i kona maka. I ka manawa like, hōʻike nā noiʻi e pili ana i kahi liʻikina liʻiliʻi i hiki ke hoʻāla i ko mākou hilinaʻi. Nānā i nā ʻano ʻekolu o nā hiʻohiʻona: ʻo ke kolu, kahi i hoʻoki aʻe ai i nā kihi o ka waha a me nā maka heʻe haʻalulu, e like me nā koho balota, ʻoi aku ka hilinaʻi nui ʻia ma mua o ka ʻilihune a me ka manaʻo ʻole.
Hōʻoiaʻiʻo kekahi noiʻi e ʻoi aʻe o kekahi mea ʻoluʻolu e nānā. ʻO kahi mea kupanaha loa ia ka mea nānā i wānana i ka naʻau o ke kāne ma o kona helehelena (no kekahi kumu ke ʻano ʻole o ka hoʻoponopono ʻia i waena o nā wahine). ʻOi aku ka lōʻihi o nā maka i ʻike ʻia ma ke ʻano o ka maka, a he ihu nui, i wahi kihi o ka waha, a me ka pahu kiko. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻopiʻi ʻia ke ʻano o ke kūlohelohe a me ka nui o ka ihu me ka ʻole ʻana o ka hōʻilii ʻana, ʻaʻohe mea pilikia o ke kiʻi ʻana i kahi hāmeʻe i ke kiʻi. Akā, ʻo kaʻoiaʻiʻo, he ʻike kumumanaʻo kēia, a ʻaʻohe pilina maoli ma waena o ka naʻau a me keʻano o ka maka.
Akā ʻōlelo kekahi ʻepekema iā mākou inā makemake ke kāne e leʻaleʻa i ka wahine, a laila ʻaʻole ia e ʻakaʻaka. Ua hopu i nā mea noiʻi ʻAmelika i kekahi mau kiʻi o nā kāne a me nā wahine e hōʻike ana i nā ʻano like ʻole, a noi aku i nā mea hana e hoʻokaʻina i ka hoʻoweliweli o kēlā me kēia kiʻi. A ke hopena, ʻike ʻia nā kāne e like me nā kiʻi o nā wahine e hōʻike ana i ka hauʻoli i ka leʻaleʻa, aʻo ia ka manaʻo like i nā kiʻi o nā kāne, ua hoihoi loa ia i nā wahine. Ua loaʻa i nā wahine nā kiʻi nani e hōʻike i nā manaʻo ʻē aʻe - aloha a me ka haʻaheo.
Ua maoli nō?
I kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole mākou i manaʻo i ka nui o nā kāne i ka mea ʻaʻole i kū i nā pōkoki pōkole. A he mau liʻiliʻi nā poʻe kākoʻo paʻa o ka lōʻihi. No ka hihia wale nō, ua hoʻoholo mākou e ʻike i ka manaʻo o ke kaiāulu o ka honua e pili ana i kēia. A i huli aku ia, he nui aku nā mea “kiʻekiʻe” i mua o kā mākou.
Wahi a nā moʻolelo, ʻoi aku ka nui o ke kanaha o ka nui o ka poʻe ʻEulopa a me nā ʻAmelika makemake i nā kaikamahine me ka lōʻihi o ka nalu ʻana o ka lauoho "a la Kaley Cuoco." I ka lua o nā huaʻōlelo o nā helu he mau mea aloha i nā lauoho "e like me Jennifer Aniston". A ma ke kolu wale nō ka mea makemake e like me nā kaikamāhine e hoʻohana i ka bob bob.
Ka ʻike kumuhana
Ke hoʻohālikelike nei i nā makemake o ko mākou mau kāne a me nā haole, ua ʻike mākou ua wawe loa e waiho i kahi kikoʻī. Akā, inā ʻaʻole ʻo kaʻoiaʻiʻo maoli me kā mākou? He kumu no kēlā kānalua. I ka huli ʻana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua hāʻule mākou i nā hopena o kahi noi noi hoihoi i nā kala o nā wahine. Ka mea i mea ʻole o ka hapaha o nā kāne a pau ka wiwo ʻole e haʻi i ka ʻikepili holoʻokoʻa e pili ana i kahi huluhulu hou a kā lākou kaikamahine.
No laila he aha kā lākou ʻōlelo ʻana inā ʻaʻohe kaikamahine e kokoke mai?
“ʻAʻole he lauoho lauoho like ke ʻano o ke kala, no laila, no ke aha lā ka pōkole kona lauoho? Makemake nā kāne i ka lauoho loloa, pono lākou e nānā me ke ʻano kūpono.
“I ka manawa aʻu e noho ai me ka wahine nona ka mea nui loa iā ia e nānā ai i kahi moena. Hoʻopaʻa maikaʻi loa ʻo ia iaʻu e hōʻeha ʻole i kāna manicure. He lauoho lōʻihi a nani kona lauoho. Akā ma ka moena, hoʻomau mau ʻo ia iā ia iho ma ke ʻano, hoʻopololei i kona lauoho. "Nui loa wau, ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke kali i ka manawa e loaʻa ai wau iā ia!"
“ʻAʻole au i makemake i nā kaikamahine ʻokiʻoki - ʻo ka mea pōkole ka lauoho, ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o ke kanaka. Akā makemake wale wau i ka lauoho lōʻihi! Kekahi mea nani a hoʻonani paha i ke kaikamahine i loaʻa i ka lauoho loloa.
"ʻO nā kaikamahine wale nō me nā pāpālina kiʻekiʻe, nā maka nani, a ma ke ʻano maʻamau, hiki i ke olonā maʻamau ke loaʻa i nā lauoho pōkole. ʻIke nei, ʻo ia ke kumu a mākou i lōʻihi ai i kahi lōʻihi - ʻaʻole lākou e hōʻike. Ke ʻike nei wau i kahi kaikamahine ʻōpio me kahi kākole pōkole pōkole, manaʻo wau he mea wiwo ʻole a me kekahi ʻano kūikawā. ʻO ia hoʻi, inā e hoʻohālikelike ʻia me ia. "
“ʻO nā pōkiki pōkole e hoʻohālikelike i nā wahine. A pōkole lākou iā ia ... ma ka laulā, maopopo ʻoe ʻoe iā ʻoe ʻo wai. "
"He aha kāu manaʻo e makemake ai nā kāne ke makemake i ke lauoho loloa?" ʻO nā kāne e like me ka wahine, ʻaʻole o ka lauoho. ʻO ia, nā mea āpau i ka hoʻohui - helehelena, ke ʻano, nā neʻe, nā ʻano, nā leo, nā ʻala ...
"Kūpono i nā wahine palupalu me ka lulu i ka lauoho a haʻaheo i ka lōʻihi. He aha ka mea e haʻaheo ai? A ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ke koho i kahi lauoho, e like me nā kuʻina o ka nani. "
“Pili wale nō ia a pau a me ke ʻano o ke kaikamahine. ʻO ka hiʻohiʻona, hauʻoli au i ka nānā ʻana i ke kāhili pōkole ponoi i ke kaikamahine! A me ke mau makahiki, pau ka lauoho loloa e hele i nā wahine. I kekahi manawa nānā ʻoe: ma hope - he pionie, i mua - he penikala. I ka po? "
“Aloha au inā ua lōʻihi kuʻu lauoho. Akā ʻo ka mea nui ka hele ʻole o ke kaikamahine i ke neʻe ʻana i ka helehelena. "Makemake wau i nā kaikamāhine e hiki ke hoʻopaʻa i ka mauʻu me ka hopohopo ʻole o ko lākou lauoho."
No ke aha ʻaʻole kahi wahine a hōʻoki i kāna kāne?
Me he mea lā e ʻoi aku ka nani o ke kāne ma mua o ka hāʻawi ʻana i kāna wahine i ka hōʻoki ʻana i kāna mea aloha? Eia kekahi, inā ua kapa ʻia ka haehae e kapala no ka mea kau paʻi. ʻAʻole pono e pale i ka laina ma ka mea e kū ai ka mea ulana lauoho, noho i ka neʻe ʻole i ka noho i kahi ʻoluʻolu ʻole a ʻaʻole maopopo ka mea ʻaukaha ke hōʻoki iā ʻoe. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ʻaʻole i ʻike ʻia he kumu maoli ʻo ia o kāna ʻano hana. Ua aʻo paha ʻoe iā ia iho a i ʻole i pau i nā papa ʻōlelo aʻo a hana ʻo ia i ka lauoho lauoho mua i kāna hoʻomaʻamaʻa iā ʻoe.
Inā paha e ʻokiʻī kāu wahine aloha iā ʻoe. A ke noho nei ʻoe ma kou noho hoʻoluʻu ma waena o ka lumi kuke a i kēlā manawa e nānā ana, e ʻōlelo, he hoʻokūkū pôpeku. ʻAe, ʻo ke hoʻopakele ʻana i nā uku ʻoihana lauoho a me ke kālā ma ke ʻano he mea hoʻohālike kekahi. A i ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa ʻana o ka poʻe kupuna wahine i ke kumu e ʻoki ʻole ai ka wahine i kāna kāne, ʻo ka hapanui o nā kāne o kēia wā, ua ʻōlohelohe i nā mea leʻaleʻa a pau o ka hale.
Inā ʻoe e hoʻolohe i ka hanauna kahiko, no ke aha e hōʻoki ʻole ai ka wahine i kāna kāne ma ka home, hiki iā mākou ke hoʻokaʻawale i nā ʻōlelo aʻo aʻe:
ʻO ka ʻokiʻoki i ka lauoho o ke kāne, e hoʻokiʻoki ka wahine i kona ola a haʻalele iā ia i ke ʻano nui.
Kūkū ʻia kēia kiʻekiʻe ma luna o ka moʻolelo o ke aliʻi ʻo Solomona. Ua ʻoki kāna wahine i kona lauoho mai ke hele ʻana i kahi hoʻopunipuni, a ua lilo ʻo ia i nāwaliwali. Wahi a kekahi, e like me nā helu helu wahine, ʻo nā wahine no ka hapa nui o ka male ʻana i kā lākou kāne, ʻo ia ka huluhulu i ka lumi kime kahi e hoʻopiʻi ai. Pehea lā e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke manaʻoʻiʻo i kēlā!?
Ina e oki ka wahine i kana kane ia ia, alaila, e hoopunipuni oia ia ia.
Hiki ke ho'ākāka ʻia kēia maʻa penei. ʻAi nā wahine āpau e ʻike me ia, ʻaʻole he kāne lauoho lauoho, akā he kāne maikaʻi me ke kapa lauoho.A ʻo ke koena o ka wahine kaulike e ʻoliʻoli loa i ka ʻike ʻana i ke kāne ʻano pena e like me ia. No laila ke kuhi hewa i ka manaʻo he hewa ʻole ka hoʻopiʻi ʻana i ka wahine no ka ʻoki ʻana i kāna kāne ma ka home. Ke loli nei nā kāne ma muli o ka palaualelo ʻole, hemahema o ke aloha a me ke aloha, a ʻaʻole no ka "huluhulu home."
Hoʻokiʻoki i ka lauoho i kahi hakakā no kāna kāne.
He mea maʻalahi kēia kūlou. E noʻonoʻo kolohe. ʻO ke kaikamahine e hōʻoki ana i ke kāne ʻaʻole hana maikaʻi ia. He mea hiki ʻole ia i kahi o nā kāne ke uhau i ka hōʻeha no kēia. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, he kaikamahine akamai ʻole ia, a nani hoʻi. A me ka nānā aku o ka nani, ke kāne, e ka maikaʻi o kona ʻano, hiki i ke ola, ʻoiai ua ʻoki ʻia kahi lauoho lauoho nani iā ia ma ke wahi make. ʻO kekahi mea, ʻo ka wahine. Hiki ke kani aʻe i ka wahine, a hoʻomanaʻo hou mai kahi i ulu ai nā lima.
Inā e hōʻoki ke wahine i ka lauoho o kāna kāne i ka mahina e ulu ana, e hoʻopau nō ia i ka karma.
Inā mākou e noʻonoʻo nei i ka kalena ʻoi a me kona hopena ma ka ulu ʻana o ka lauoho, a laila hiki iā mākou ke ʻōlelo iā e kālai ʻia ka lauoho ma ka mahina ʻōpua e hoʻomoe ana i ka ulu ʻana, akā ma kahi ʻē aʻe e hoʻokipa. A ʻaʻole i ʻōlelo ʻia kahi lauoho i hana ʻia i kekahi ʻaoʻao o ka mahina e jinx a i ʻole kekahi e pili ana i ka biofield kanaka.
No laila, e ʻae e hōʻoki i kāu kāne i ka home a hoʻouna paha iā ia i ka mea e hana nā kaomi - manaʻo ʻia i kāna wahine wale nō. Akā ke hana i kāu koho wale nō ma luna o nā kumu ʻole hoʻokele kūpono ʻole.
ʻO nā mea a ka kāne e ʻōlelo ai
ʻAe, ua nīnau au i kekahi o lākou. E like paha me ka manaʻo o ka poʻe, he hopohopo nui a ua hilinaʻi lākou e ʻaihue nā wahine a paliu wale nō i nā mea e ʻike pono ai lākou iā lākou iho, nā kāne. A ʻōlelo akula lākou i ka ʻōlelo a Stendhal ma kēia kumuhana:
ʻO kahi wahine, ua hōʻahu kapa iā ia iho, hāʻawi iā ia iho i kāne.
A hoʻomaka maoli lākou no ke aha e hoʻomau nei ka wahine e hana koʻikoʻi ma luna o kona kiʻi, ʻo ka noho ʻana i ke kūlana o ka wahine! "No ke aha e makemake ai ʻoe i nā kāmaʻa hou? ʻAʻole ʻoe i lawe i lalo i nā mea kahiko! "," He aha lā ka mea - ʻaʻohe mea e ʻaʻahu ai? " ʻAʻole kokoke ko mākou keʻena mokulele mai kāu mau mea! ”," Ma hea ʻoe i ʻaʻa ai me kēlā? ʻO ka mea, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hele i kahi hui me nā mea kūʻai aku me nā jeans a me ka sweater? " Ke makemake nei ʻoe, e like me aʻu i kēlā manawa i kēia mau ʻōlelo i kā kāu mau kāne?
ʻO kekahi paha o nā kāne, ke manaʻo nei e ʻaʻahu mākou e hoʻonāukiuki i nā hoaaloha. A he paʻa pū kekahi mea i loko ...
ʻO ka mea a ka wahine e ʻōlelo ai
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, uaʻike ka hapa nui o nā kaikamāhine iā lākou iho a me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i ke aloha wale no kā lākou mea aloha: e hoʻoulu i ko lākou mau ʻuhane, e hōʻoluʻolu a paʻa hoʻi. A ʻoiaʻiʻo, liʻiliʻi iki lākou.
Pane kekahi o koʻu mau hoa i kaʻu nīnau i kēia: "ʻAe nō, noʻu iho. ʻO ia wale nō kā mākou e hoʻāʻo ai e loaʻa i nā mea ʻē aʻe ma o nā mea: ka manaʻo o nā hoapili, nā kāne, nā kaikamahine aloha. A i ʻole e pani i kekahi mau gestalt. Hiki i ka lole ke haʻi i ka nui e pili ana i ko mākou kūlana kūloko a me ke ʻano, ʻoi aku i ko mākou makemake. Ke lole nei wau e noʻonoʻo iaʻu iho "wow" i kēlā me kēia lā. Aia kekahi makewai no ka ʻike! ” I koʻu manaʻo, he ʻōleloʻoiaʻiʻo maoli a pololei.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, noʻonoʻo mākou e pili ana i nā kāne a no lākou ke kīhai mākou i nā lole hoʻohaʻahaʻa i hoʻokaʻawale ʻia a me nā lole kūlohelohe nani. Akā! Inā mākou e ʻaʻa kū wale nō i nā kāne, hiki ʻole iā mākou ke kīkī i ka hana manicure, nā lole paʻa a me nā lole nui a lākou i inaina ai ...
Akā ʻo ka mea ma o nā lole manaʻo o mākou he nui e makemake e hoʻohālikelike i ko mākou kūlana nohona kiʻekiʻe. Eia naʻe, ua hiki ia: hiki i ke kaikamahine ke keʻa wale i ke aloha hoʻokahi no ke aloha honi. No ka mea, ʻo wai kēia mau mea hoʻolālā e kū like me kahi lele mokulele, nona nā kāmaʻa kūleʻa liʻiliʻi no ka hele ʻana, no wai lā ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e hoʻohiki iā ʻoe iho i kahi esque, nā mea nona nā inoa inoa "kahuli" poina ia mai nā ʻaoʻao waho? No kekahi e hiki ke mahalo i kēia, e hoʻolaha a ... ʻūleu i kona huelo mai ka huā, ʻo ia hoʻi, no kahi hoaaloha, hoa hana, hoʻokūkū hoʻokūkū. Eia, aia kahi manaʻo i loko o ka umauma ʻoihana holoʻokoʻa e hopohopo i ka mea - he mea nui ia e hoʻomaopopo pono i kēia.
Wahi a nā poʻe loea
Ua koho wau iā ʻoe i nā manaʻo o kekahi poʻe ʻē aʻe kaʻu e mahalo ai ma ke ʻano o "pehea" a "nona":
I loko o kahi kapa o nā wahine, ua mahele ʻia nā lole i ʻekolu mau ʻano - no lākou iho, no nā kaona wahine a no nā kāne. Mai hoʻohilahila i kēia mau mea waho. Evelina Khromchenko
ʻAʻole nā lole wahine no nā kāne. Uʻā lākou iā lākou iho a no kekahi. Inā nā wahine i ʻaihue no nā kāne, hele wale lākou e hele i ka manawa āpau. Betsy Johnson
ʻAʻole komo kahi kapa komo i ka manaʻo inā ʻaʻole ia e hoʻokomo i nā kāne i kahi makemake e wehe iā ʻoe. Kaola Sagan
Inā hoʻopā kekahi wahine iā ʻoe i ka nani, akā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻomanaʻo i kāna mea e ʻaʻahu ai, a laila uaʻaʻahu ʻo ia iā ia iho. Coco Chanel
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ʻO ka mea noʻonoʻo Elena Shpundra no laila haʻi ʻia e pili ana i ko mākou "manaʻo koʻikoʻi":
Hoʻokomo ka wahine i nā wahine ʻē aʻe. ʻO kā mākou e ʻōlelo nei, "ʻaʻahu wau noʻu iho," like like ia, no ka mea he wahine mākou. ʻIke mau nā kāne iā mākou. Ke ʻike nei lākou i ke kiʻi holoʻokoʻa, a inā makemake lākou i kēia kiʻi, ʻaʻole ke kumu o ia i loko o ka "louboutins" a i ʻole i kahi mea demokratika.
Aia kekahi mau kāne i mea nui loa i ka wahine e ʻae iā lākou a ke kapa nei a i nani chis, ʻo ia ka mea e hauʻoli nei i ka hāʻawi kālā i ka labootenas a no ka hoʻokipa kirika ʻana o ka umauma a me nā lehelehe. Akā, i koʻu manaʻo, ma kēia ala, hoʻopiʻi lākou no ko lākou ʻike hohonu hohonu o ka hina haʻahaʻa. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, ʻoi aku ka hapa o nā kāne e hoʻomaikaʻi iā lākou iho ma o ka palu ʻana me nā lole. ʻOi aku ka pololei, ʻo nā koho kāne nui loa no ka ulu a me ka nui o ka penis ʻaʻole hiki ke kūpono i ka hoʻoponopono ʻana. No laila, hoʻoponopono lākou i ka wahine. ʻ Well, i kekahi hihia, loaʻa nō kēia kuʻikahi a me kā mākou ke uku ʻia i kēlā me kēia.
Akā ʻo kaʻu mea i manaʻo ai
Manaʻo wau i nā wahine hoʻonaninani a nani, makemake wau i kēia mau papahana āpau e like me "Fashion Sentence", "Wehewehe koke" Aʻo wau, ʻo ka hopena, ʻaʻole ia he mea koʻikoʻi no ka mea e noʻonoʻo ai kēia mau wahine ma luna o ko lākou kiʻi, e helu i ka lōʻihi o ke kāʻei a ʻohi i nā kāʻei no nā ʻeke.
Ma keʻano ākea, ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei wau he lole ka lole, ʻo ia ka mea no kā mākou honua i ka honua e pili ana iā mākou iho, e pili ana i ko mākou makemake a me ko mākou ʻano. A inā hui pololei ʻia kēia ʻatikala, e pono e loaʻa i nā mea a pau: nā kāne, nā wahine, nā mea makemake, a me ka poʻe makaʻu ʻole. Akā ʻo kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻohe nui o nā wahine e like me koʻu ʻano - ʻo ka hapanui o ka poʻe i komo i ka ʻoihana hoʻonaʻauao. Eia nō naʻe, i mea e ʻike pono ai i ko mākou ʻāina, pono ʻoe: a) manawa, b) kālā, a pinepine c) ke kōkua o kahi stylist. Inā paʻakikī kēia mau mea a pau, a laila pono ʻoe e hoʻoponopono.
No laila, inā makemake wau e makemake ʻoluʻolu i kekahi, kau wau i kahi lole i ʻelima mau makahiki ʻelima, akā i loko o koʻu manaʻo he ʻano akua. A ma loko o ka hale kūʻai, ke noʻonoʻo nei i nā kāmaʻa kūlohelohe, ke noʻonoʻo nei wau paha inā ʻoe e uku i ka hapalua o ka uku hana e hoʻonāukiuki ai kekahi i kekahi manawa a hauʻoli wale nō paha. I ka hopena, ʻaʻole wau i "luku i ka mea kahiko" :) A ma ka hopena, ke kali nei wau i mea kūʻai aku.
Ma ʻike nō hoʻi au i kahi mea huna. Ke ʻaʻahu ʻia, mea pono ke kiʻi i ke kiʻi ma kahi liʻiliʻi a i kekahi mea kūpono paha āu e makemake ai. Hiki i nā mea āpau - ke kapa, ke ʻeke, nā kāmaʻa a me nā ʻeke paha. E ʻike a hali maoli kona mau hoaaloha, a e manaʻo ʻoe e hilinaʻi a nani. I ka manawa ʻē, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e waiho i kahi pōmaikaʻi no kāu kakaka! A ʻo ke koena e hoʻopakele ʻia e ke ʻano mau loa.
ʻO kahi mea hele maikaʻi maka hoʻokahi ʻole i nānā ʻole i kona kapa. ʻO ke mua o ke kanaka, kona ʻano, kona helehelena. ʻO kēia ke kuleana o nā mea maʻamau maʻamau. Evelina Khromchenko
He aha kāu manaʻo e pili ana i kēia? Kākau i loko o nā manaʻo - he mea nui loa kāu pane mai kā mākou!
