ʻO nā hōʻailona hōʻoluʻolu o ke kanaka ʻē e maʻalahi e hopu no nā kaikamahine

Pehea e hoʻomaopopo ai e makemake ke aloha kāne iā ʻoe? ʻO ka wehewehe o ka lokomaikaʻi e ka ʻāʻule, nā ʻano, ke kamaʻilio, ma ke ʻano a me nā hana. Kahea a me ka SMS mai ke kime i ke aloha. Nā ʻōlelo a ka psychologist. Nā nīnau nīnau pinepine. ʻO ka hana hou aʻe ma hope o ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ke aloha ʻana.

ʻO nā kaikamahine wale nō ke hiki ke hūnā i ko lākou mau manaʻo. Hāʻawi nā Guys i ke aloha me nā hui wale ʻole o nā huaʻōlelo a i ʻole me nā ʻano kūpono. Hoʻolālā ʻia kēlā me kēia kāne ke hiki ʻole ke kōkua iā ia akā ma hope o kāna kaikamahine. No laila ʻo ka hōʻailona mua loa o ka makemake ʻana iā ʻoe e hana i kāna mau hana.

ʻAʻohe mea i hōʻaʻae i ke ʻano o ka hoʻomana a me ka hoʻōho, no laila inā kōkua ke kanaka iā ʻoe e wehe i kou kapa komo, hoʻokūkū i kou lole, wehe i ka puka i mua ou, a laila e mālama pono ʻoe iā ia.

ʻO kāna mālama, ke makemake e kōkua a hoʻokele i kāna mea aloha e haʻi iā ʻoe i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo holoʻokoʻa e pili ana i nā manaʻo o ke kāne. ʻO nā naita kanaka, a inā ʻoe e makemake i kekahi e ʻimi e leʻaleʻa.

Pehea e hoʻomaopopo ai i ke aloha i ka mea makua i ka wā ʻōpio?

Nā Keleloa. ^ E Ha yM. ʻAʻole ke kiʻi āu e makemake ai i kāu ala a i ʻole ke alo. E hahai wale i ka ʻōlelo o kona kino, a e hoʻomaopopo ʻoe i nā mea āpau.
Ka hopena i nā manaʻo. Inā kau kona maka iā ʻoe no ka kekona ʻoi aku ma mua o kekahi, e hōʻailona paha kēia i ke aloha.
Ke kūkā. ^ E Ha yM. ʻAʻole hōʻike ʻia nā moʻolelo e pili ana iā ʻoe iho i ke aloha. Malia paha ua hauʻoli kē ke kanaka a hoʻomaka ʻo ia e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ke akamai.
Kauāʻālua. ^ E Ha yM. I kekahi manawa, e manaʻo ʻoe e makemake iā ia, no ka mea e hoʻāʻo ʻo ia e paʻi iā ʻoe. I kēia hihia, ua hoʻokaʻawale ʻia nā wahine a pau nā helehelena e ka hele ʻana.
Ke kamaʻilio ʻana me nā kaikamahine ʻē aʻe. ^ E Ha yM. Hiki iā ia ke pāʻani me nā mea ʻē aʻe e ʻike i kou hopena, no laila i ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kekahi ʻē aʻe, e nānā aku ʻo ia iā ʻoe.
Nā Pāʻoihana maʻamau. ^ E Ha yM. Inā ʻike mua kahi kāne i ke kiʻi e makemake ʻoe i kahi kiʻiʻoniʻaka a kamaʻilio e pili ana i ke nānā ʻana iā ia ma kahi kiʻiʻoniʻoni a pehea hoʻi kona makemake ʻana, a laila lawa kēia e hoʻomaikaʻi aku iā ʻoe.
ʻO ka ʻoliʻoli. ^ E Ha yM. ʻO ka makemake e hana i kahi kiʻi maikaʻi, hiki i ke kāne ke makaʻu iki.
Hōʻikeʻike. ^ E Ha yM. Lilo ka poʻe i ka aniani o ka neʻe o nā mea a lākou e makemake ai.
Kāhea ʻolelo. ^ E Ha yM. Inā ʻoe ke kumu o kāna mau haʻahaʻa, a laila ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia e ʻeha iā ʻoe, ke kali wale nei ʻo ia e ʻakaʻaka.
Nā kulu piha. ^ E Ha yM. Inā ʻike ke kāne iā ʻoe ua hana hou i ka manicure hou, ʻike e maopopo maoli he ulia ia iā ʻoe.

Pehea ʻoe e ʻike ai inā pili ʻia kahi pen pen me kāu?

Nā mea hōʻike e hōʻike i kona aloha ʻana iā ʻoe:

Hāʻawi kekahi kanaka iā ʻoe i nā hoʻopiʻi unobtrusive.
Inā ma mua ka kākau ʻana o ka kāne i ka kākau ʻana, a ma hope o kekahi manawa ua hoʻomaka ʻo ia e hahai i ka huaʻōlelo a me nā hemahema, a laila he hōʻailona maikaʻi kēia.
ʻAʻohe ʻōlelo manaʻo ʻole
ʻO kahi makemake hoihoi i kou ola.
Ke hoʻohālikelike nei i kona mau hoaaloha a ʻo ʻoe, hoʻopiʻi iā ʻoe.
Hoʻohana pinepine ʻia nā Phrases i ke kamaʻilio ʻana, kahi e mihi ai ʻo ia i kou waiho ʻole ʻana ma kahi wahi.
Ua kākau ʻo ia ua nele iā ʻoe.
ʻO nā pane e pili ana i nā kaikamahine ʻē aʻe (ma ke ʻano o ka hoʻonaʻauao o kēia wā).
E hōʻike ana i kou hoihoi i kāu mau leʻaleʻa.
E hoʻomaka mua ka papa inoa.
Aia kēlā ma kāu ʻaoʻao.
ʻLelo, e hoʻāʻo nei e like me ka ʻakaʻaka.

E ʻike ma o ka ʻike maka!

Inā wiwo ʻole ke kāne, e hopu ʻoe i kāu mea hoihoi i kāu mau minuke āpau, akā inā he haʻalulu ʻoe, a mai pupū ke nānā ke nānā ʻole ke kāne. Ma ka puʻuwai hiki iā ia ke like like me ʻoe, ʻaʻole wale ia e hōʻike i kona mau manaʻo.

Inā 'oe e nānā i ke kaholo o nā haumāna i ka nānā' ana iā ʻoe, a laila mālie - he mea maopopo kēia o ke tohu a me nā makemake.

Inā ke nānā ʻia ana nā maka o ke kāne ma kou lae, a laila nona kāna makemake pilikino i kāu kuhikuhi. A inā ʻike ʻia mai nā maka i nā lehelehe a hoʻi aku - ʻike iā ia he hōʻailona kēia no ka pili aloha. ʻO ke kī i ke aloha, he mau lāli ʻili me ka ʻoluʻolu a me ka ʻakaʻaka.

I ka hui o nā hoaaloha a i ʻole ʻahaina paha, aia mau ʻoe i kāna mahinaʻai, no ka mea aloha ke aloha ʻole ke kau ʻōpio i kāna "waiwai pio" i mua o ka maka.

E ka ʻike ʻana! Hiki i kāna mau mea hoʻohālikelike ke ʻōlelo aku i ka nui!

I kēia pilikia, he mea nui ka situationality. E hāhai i kāna mau hana i kona hālāwai ʻana iā ʻoe a ʻokoʻa paha iā ʻoe i ka wā e komo ai ʻoe i ke keʻena a e hele paha ma ke alanui. Hiki i kēia mau pahuhopu ke haʻi aku iā ʻoe.

Hoʻopili i nā lole - No laila makemake ʻo ia e nānā aku i ka nānā nui aku i kou mau maka a makaʻu ʻole paha ʻoe i ke nānā aku me ʻoe.
Kū ka wāwae. Inā haʻalele ke kanaka i kona wāwae i mua, ʻo ia ka mea e hilinaʻi ʻo ia ʻaʻole ia e ʻimi ana. Ma kou alo, he hopohopo ʻo ia.
Nā poʻohiwi kūloko. No laila, hoʻāʻo ka kāne e nānā i nā ʻoi aku a ʻoi aku ka ikaika ma hope o ke kaikamahine.
Ke kāʻei nei i ka hope o ke poʻo i ka wā e kamaʻilio ana. ʻO kahi hōʻailona hōʻailona āu e hoʻohilahila ai iā ia a palaka. ʻOkoʻa nā keikikāne i ke aloha ma mua o nā mea maʻamau, no laila mai makaʻu ʻoe.
Naʻu ʻāʻī maka. Inā ʻoe e ʻike i nā kihi o nā maka i loko o ke kamaʻilio ʻana, a laila hiki iā ʻoe ke hanu me ka mālie - makemake maoli ʻo ia iā ʻoe.
Hoʻopili i nā makana a iʻa paha. ʻO nā hōʻailona o ka hauʻoli a me ka makemake e leʻaleʻa iā ʻoe.
Nā lima i ke kāʻei . ^ E Ha yM. Makemake ke kanaka e hōʻike i ka ikaika a me ka hilinaʻi.
Nāhelehele ʻāpana - hōʻikeʻike i kou ʻano ʻōpiopio i ke kanaka ʻōpiopio.
Hoʻohipa lauoho. ʻO ka makemake e nānā hoihoi.
Hoʻokahi i ke pihi. Hōʻike ka pīhoihoi a me ka makemake.
Nā lima i ke kāʻei - makemake e hōʻoluʻolu.

Nā Hōʻike Manaʻo o ka Sympathy

ʻO ke kumuhana o nā pilina ma waena o nā kāne, e kū mau ana a kūpono hoʻi. No laila, he nui nā hana maikaʻi o nā psychologists i hoʻomau ʻia e ia. Hiki iā ʻoe ke heluhelu i ka puke "Pehea e hoʻomaopopo ai i ke kanaka, makemake ke kanaka iā ʻoe. Nā hōʻailona, ʻōlelo, ʻonaʻatikala. " A e kamaʻilio wau e pili ana i koʻu mau ʻike, aʻu i hele ai i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa.

I mea e maʻalahi ai ka hana i ka ʻano o kahi kanaka ʻē aʻe, pono ʻoe e makaʻala nui i nā hōʻailona ʻike o ke aloha. No ka loaʻa iā lākou, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e lilo i ka noʻonoʻo psychology. Eia kekahi, heluhelu ʻia nā "hōʻailona", inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e kamaʻilio pilikino me kahi kāne.

A o ka mea mua, hāʻawi nā maka i ke aloha. ʻAʻohe mea kuhi lākou i ʻōlelo he aniani o ko mākou ʻuhane. Mai ka nānā aku aneane hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻoholo loa e nānā ʻole ʻole ke kaikamahine opio iā ʻoe. Inā loaʻa ke minamina, he mea paʻakikī loa ke kāne e hoʻokaʻawale i kona mau maka i ke kaikamahine. Hoʻopau wale akula ʻo ia iā ia, i kekahi manawa me ka pīpī wale nō, akā hoʻāʻo pū e hopu i kona maka.

ʻOiai ke kanaka'ōpiopio aloha, makemakeʻole e makemake kokoke i ke kumuhana o kāna hoʻomana. ʻAʻole makemake ia e haʻalele mai ke kaikamahine, hele ʻo ia i mua o kona alo. Ma ka manawa like, hoʻāʻo ke kanaka e nānā i kēia manawa. No laila, hoʻoponopono ʻo ia i kona poʻohiwi, hoʻopili i kona lauoho a me kona kapa.

Hoʻomaka pinepine ʻia ka mea mahalo, mahalo i ke kaikamahine āna e makemake ai, ma ka hoʻomaka ʻana e kope kope i kāna mau kiʻi holoʻokoʻa. A hiki aku la ia pili ana i ka lauoho, ua hiki mai kona lima no ke poo. ʻO ke kanaka e nani iā ia e lawe i kahi kelepona paʻa - a hiki i ke kāne ke pena ʻoluʻolu e hopu i kāna puʻuwai.

Pehea e lawe ai i ka hana mua

Nui ʻo ia inā kakali ke kāne kāne a huli i nā ala e ʻike ai i kahi kanaka āna i makemake ai. Inā loaʻa kahi pilina o nā hoaaloha, hiki iā ia ke hoʻomaka i ka launa ʻana, e pono ana i kekahi manawa kūpono. Akā ʻaʻole kēia e kū pinepine!

ʻOiaʻiʻo, ua hoʻohana ʻia nā wāhine i ka noʻonoʻo ʻana he maʻalahi loa ke hele a hana mua ke kāne. Pela no anei keia? ʻAe, e kau iā ʻoe i kahi o kahi kāne! ʻAʻole ʻoe maopopo i ka makemake a pehea ʻoe e hopohopo, pehea e makaʻu ʻole ai i ka hāʻule ʻole?

No laila, ʻaʻohe mea hewa i ka papa mua. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, ʻo ka ʻano o ke aʻewaʻewa mai ka ʻaoʻao o ka wahine i kekahi manawa nele i ka luna o ka wahine ikaika. Pehea e hoʻomaka ai i kahi kamaʻilio? Hiki iā ʻoe ke hele mai a hoʻolauna mai iā ʻoe iho, ʻoiai inā ʻoe maʻamau i loko o kahi hui maʻamau.

ʻAʻole hiki i nā kānaka a pau ke hana pololei a laila ʻike wau he mea maoli maoli ia. A laila hiki iāʻoe ke lawe i ka hanana. ʻO nā koho maʻamau loa: ma ka institute, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i kahi papa o nā kaukau ʻana i kahi haumāna haumāna, ma ke keʻena, e wehewehe i kekahi mau manawa hana, a ʻo ka mea hope loa ma ke alanui, e nīnau i ka manawa hea a pehea e hiki ai i ka waihona.

Ke hōʻoia aku nei au iā ʻoe, inā ʻoe hoihoi a hoihoi i kekahi kāne, koho iā ia i kahi kamaʻilio ʻana me ka leʻaleʻa a me ka hilahila paha, e hana i nā hana e hoʻolōʻihi i ka ʻike. A inā ʻaʻole? ʻAʻohe mea e hopohopo ai! Hiki iā ʻoe ke lilo i mau hoaaloha maikaʻi ʻole me ka hopohopo paha e manaʻo maikaʻi kekahi kekahi iā ʻoe.

He aha kāu e aʻo ai i ke kamaʻilio

A, ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua kamaʻilio pū me nā ʻōpiopio e ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka mea e pili ʻole ana ʻo ia iā ʻoe. I ka wā o ka kamaʻilio ʻana, e hoʻolohe mālie ke kanaka i nā huaʻōlelo a pau o kāna vis-a-vis a kūlou hoʻi i ke kumuhana o ka ʻeha.

Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Pose. I ke kamaʻilio ʻana o ke kāne i ka wahine āna e makemake ai i ia, hōʻike ʻo ia i ka hāakaʻaka me kona kino holoʻokoʻa. He mea nui ia no ia e aʻo e pili ana i ke ʻano: he laulā o ke kumuhana i kūkā ʻia i ke kamaʻilio ʻana. Aia ke kanaka hoihoi i ke ʻano o nā mea ʻoluʻolu o ke kaikamahine ma kāna, he aha kāna hana. Makemake pū ʻo ia e kōkua i kahi mea liʻiliʻi loa: e hāʻawi i kahi lole i ka lā ʻoluʻolu, e lawe i kahi ʻeke kaumaha.

ʻOiaʻiʻo, ke ake koke nei wau iā ʻoe e pili ana i ka kamaʻilio ʻaʻole ʻoe e poina e nānā maoli kekahi mau kāne ma mua o nā wahine āpau. ʻAʻohe mea hewa ʻole o ia mea, ke nānā wale nei ʻoe i ke kanaka ma mua o ka hoʻoholo ʻana ʻaʻole ia he mea pili ʻole iā ʻoe.

Makemake au e makemake i ka poʻe heluhelu e hōʻike hou ai i ko lākou mau manaʻo, a ʻoi aku ka wiwo aʻe o nā kaikamahine. ʻO kekahi manawa ʻaʻole ia i lawa no ka hoʻomaka i kahi pilina aloha me kahi kāne āu e makemake ai.

Kaʻana i nā mea pili i nā hoaaloha a nīnau i nā nīnau e hopohopo nei iā ʻoe! E hauʻoli wau e kaʻana i koʻu ʻike me ʻoe!

Wahi a kāna mau hana a me kāna ʻano?

Ke hoʻomaopopo nei inā makemake kekahi kanaka iā ʻoe e kāna mau hana, pono ʻoe e hoʻolohe pololei i kāna ʻano. Inā he huhū ia, a laila ʻoluʻolu ke ʻimi o kou ala i ke ʻano he ala aloha. Inā ikaika ka ikaika o ka kāne, a laila ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻoi aku ka manaʻo nui mai ke alo aku.

E hoʻāʻo e ke kanaka e hālāwai me ʻoe, e kōkua iā ʻoe, kēlā me kēia poʻe a pau i loko o kou ola.

Nā hana a kahi kāne i ke aloha:

Ke nānā aku nei iā ʻoe ma mua o ka mea maʻamau.
Makemake e hoʻolōʻihi i nā manawa me ʻoe.
Hana i nā hana like ʻole.
Hoʻomaopopo i kāu mau makemake a hana i nā makana kūpono.
Ke hoʻāʻo nei e kiʻi i kou nānā.
E leʻaleʻa iā ʻoe.
Kōkua i ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i nā pilikia.
E akahele i kou ʻano.
E nānā i kāu mau pono.
Hoʻolohe nui ʻo ia i kāu mau moʻolelo āpau.
Hoʻomaka i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
Hoʻomaka ʻo Absentmindedness ma o kāna ʻano.
He lili ʻo ia iā ʻoe.
Hōʻike ʻo ia iā ʻoe i nā hoaaloha.
E hana maikaʻi nā mea.
Kāhea e hana i kahi manaʻo maikaʻi.
Aloha iā ʻoe.
Hoʻopau i nā koi.
Hoʻokalakupua iā ʻoe.
ʻO ke kāhea ʻana.

He aha kona ʻano e like ai? Nā hoʻololi i kona helehelena

ʻO ke kanaka e makemake e makemake ʻia i nā lā nani a nani hoʻi. I ka manawa like, hoʻāʻo ʻo ia e hoʻoponopono a hoʻoponopono i kekahi mea i mea e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi.

Ua hoʻomaikaʻi nani ʻo ia i kona kapa, aia nō ʻo ia i ka hālāwai hope loa a ʻike ʻoe e ʻapōpō e hoʻi mai ana i loko. E hoʻopihapiha ʻia nō ia me kāna mea ʻala maikaʻi loa, i hiki ʻole ai iā ʻoe ke pale kūʻē.

Hiki iā ia e makemake e hoʻololi i konaʻano a hoʻoponopono paha i konaʻano. ʻO kēia ke ʻano o kou helehelena, ʻike ʻo ia i nā palaka i loko ona a makemake ana e hoʻoponopono iā lākou i mea e like me ʻoe.

Pehea e hana ai ke kāne i ke aloha?

Manaʻo 1st. Ke hoʻāʻo nei ʻo ia e hōʻike iā ʻoe he makemake ʻoe iā ia. Hōʻike i ke aloha a hoʻomau i ka kamaʻilio. He mea nui ka mahalo a me ka mahalo i kēia manawa. Pono ke kanaka e hōʻike i kāna noʻonoʻo a me ka naʻauao, no laila ua ʻae ʻoe e hele i kahi lā me ia, a loaʻa lākou i kahi leʻaleʻa nui mai ke kaʻina o ka lanakila ʻana i ke kaikamahine.
2 hana. Kolo ke poʻo i ke poʻo mai nā manaʻo a hiki ʻole ke pale hou iā ia iho i ʻole e hoʻopilikia i kou wahi pilikino pono ʻole e hoʻopilikia me nā kāhea. ʻO kēia manawa ka mea aloha loa no nā kaikamahine - ʻo ka manawa o nā pua a hele i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni. Lilo ke kanaka a ʻoliʻoli.
3 ʻano. ^ E Ha yM. I ka loaʻa ʻana o kou wahi, ʻaʻole e haʻalele ka kāne i nā mea āpau e like me ia a ʻaʻole e waiho i ka ʻaka i kou lima. E hānai ʻo ia i kou pilina me kahi mea hou a me ke aloha. E noʻonoʻo ʻia kēlā me kēia pae e neʻe hou aku ʻo ia e pili ana i kāu makemake a e hoʻolōʻihi i ka manawa iā lākou. No laila, ma kahi o kahi paka, e hele ʻoe i kahi ʻakaʻaka o kāu pūʻulu punahele.
ʻOi aku ka wā 4. ^ E Ha yM. I kekahi pilina, hiki mai kahi manawa e pau ai nā bouquets i kēlā me kēia lā a hoʻomaka ka poʻe e ola hou i ko lākou ola, e hoʻohui wale ana i kahi mea aloha iā ia. I loko o kēia manawa, lilo ia ke kanaka i ka emi loa, akā ʻaʻole e nalowale ka makemake a makemake e hoʻolilo manawa me ʻoe a e ʻoluʻolu iā ʻoe i nā ʻano āpau.

ʻO kāna kamaʻilio ʻana a me ke kamaʻilio pū me ʻoe

Eia kekahi mau hōʻailona o ka hāʻule i ke aloha hiki ke ʻike ʻia i ke kamaʻilio me kahi ʻōpio:

Inner honua. ^ E Ha yM. ʻIke kekahi kāne i ke aloha ʻaʻole wale i kou maka, akā hoʻolohe nō hoʻi i nā ʻano naʻau a me ke ʻano o ke kaikamahine. Ua makemake nuiʻo ia i kona ʻano a me nā hoʻopiʻi e hoʻomaikaʻi iā ia. He mea nui ia i nā kaikamahine e makemake i ko lākou mahalo a me ka mahana, a ʻike nā kāne.
Pono a hewa ʻole. ^ E Ha yM. ʻO nā moʻolelo e pili ana i nā wā kamaliʻi, e pili ana i nā manawa kuhi mai kahi hoʻomaha a i ʻole kekahi mau manaʻo luhi - he hōʻailona ia e hilinaʻi nui ke kanaka iā ʻoe a ʻike i ke kākoʻo iā ʻoe. ʻAʻole makaʻu ke kāne aloha i ke ʻano he huhū a palupalu paha.
Makemake iā ʻoe. ^ E Ha yM. Inā hele ʻoe i ka lumi hoʻomaha a kou hoʻi ʻana mai, ʻike ʻoe i ka ʻōpū i ke alo o kahi ʻōpio i hele hou aku nei kekahi ʻē aʻe i kou haʻalele ʻana, a laila ʻakaʻaka a ʻike ʻoe i kāna ʻano ʻo kāu hui.
ʻAʻole ʻike ia i nā hewa. ^ E Ha yM. Huli ke kāne aloha i loko o kou mau hiʻohiʻona maikaʻi wale nō. ʻAʻole kēia he ke hemolele ʻoe, ʻaʻole nāna e ʻike i kāu mau hemahema a ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hoʻoponopono iā ʻoe i ke kamaʻilio ʻana.
Mai hoʻohilahila iā ʻoe. ^ E Ha yM. ʻAno ke keikikāne i ke aloha e hilahila ʻole a hoʻolilo ke kaikamahine a hilahila.
Noʻonoʻo noʻonoʻo. ^ E Ha yM. E hopu iā ia i nā huaʻōlelo āu e ʻōlelo ai, akā ʻaʻole ia e hōʻike. E hele mau ʻoe a hoʻolohe i nā manawa a pau āu e makemake ai.

SMS a kāhea aku mai ke kanaka i ke aloha

Nāhea a me ka SMS e lilo i mea hoʻonāukiuki iki, akā ʻaʻole ma mua o kahi manawa iki, lawa ka ʻike e pehea ʻoe e hana ai a ke hālāwai ʻoe. Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi pilikia, e hoʻolohe maoli ke kāne iā ʻoe inā ʻaʻole paluhi ia me ka hana wikiwiki.

Aia kekahi mau ʻano kāne e makemake ʻole e kamaʻilio ma ke kelepona. Mai nā mea e manaʻo ai lākou i kahi SMS a i ʻole he ʻōlelo e hele wāwae ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o kēia mau kāne i ke kamaʻilio hou i loko o ka hau a i ʻole i loko o kahi cafe. I mea e maʻalahi ai lākou e wehe a nānā i nā maka o ke kaikamahine.

ʻO nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo mai kahi ʻomaʻenehana

Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe maopopo ke aloha, a laila e nīnau pololei e pili ana iā ia (ʻoiai ʻaʻole hilahila ke kāne).
ʻO kahi kanaka e aloha ʻole ʻoe e kūkākūkā pū me nā kaikamāhine ʻē aʻe me ʻoe. ʻO ʻoe wale nō ʻoe. ʻOiai, aia kekahi mau koho e hoʻāʻo wale nei iā ia e lili iā ia.
Mai hoʻopunipuni iā ʻoe iho. Ke ʻike nei ke nānā nei ke kāne iā ʻoe, mai wikiwiki e hauʻoli, hiki paha i kēia ke hoʻi i kou mau manaʻo. Ua makemake wale nō ʻo ia iā ʻoe i kou nāʻenehana, ʻaʻohe.
ʻAʻole hiki i nā manawa maʻamau ke wehewehe pololei i ka ʻano o kahi kāne, no laila mai hoʻomālamalo iā ʻoe iho me ka ʻike ʻana i ke ʻano o kona hāpai ʻana i ka lauoho a i ʻole e huki iā ʻoe. Malia paha he ʻano maoli a aloha ʻo ia.
Mai nīnau i nā hoaaloha e ʻike e pili ana i ke aloha ʻana o kahi kāne. Hiki i kēia ke hoʻopau i ke kūlana.
Inā i loko o ke kamaʻilio ʻana e nānā ʻo ia i kou kino, makemake ʻoe iā ia e like me ke kumuhana kino. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi ʻaʻole ke kamaʻilio me kēlā mau kāne.
E makaʻala loa i nā kāpena ponoʻole. Inā aia he mea e hele ai, e wehewehe koke i ke ʻano o kēia hele ʻana.
Mai kūkākūkā i ke aloha me nā mea a pau i ka lālani.ʻO nā pilina ikaika loa i kū pinepine i waena o nā mea ʻelua, me ka hoʻoweliweli ʻole ʻia me kekahi mea superfluous.
Mai hana pālahalaha me ka nānā ʻana. Hiki iā ʻoe ke maʻalahi e hoʻowalewale i ke kāne me nā hiʻohiʻona kānalua.
E kamaʻilio pū me kou mau mākua. I kahi hoʻomaka, ʻaʻole e hōʻeha kou mau manaʻo i kekahi, akā inā manaʻo ʻoe ua hāʻule nui ʻoe i ke aloha, e kamaʻilio me kou makuahine.
ʻOmaʻomaʻo. ʻO nā kaikamāhine e like me nā kauā ma mua o ke moʻo.

ʻO nā pane i nā nīnau nīnau pinepine

Pehea e hiki ai iaʻu ke hoʻomaopopo i ka mea a kahi kanaka e makemake ai inā huna ʻo ia ia?

Hoʻohālikelike wale i kona ʻano iā ʻoe a me kekahi. ʻAʻohe ʻano maikaʻi kāna ʻano. Ma kahi o ka manaʻo e ʻaʻole ʻo ia e kamaʻilio pū me ʻoe, e nānā pono i ke kamaʻilio ʻana me ka poʻe. Inā ma hope o lilo iā ia ka ʻoluʻolu, ʻoluʻolu loa, ke aloha iki, a laila he hōʻailona paha kēia o ke aloha.

E makaʻala i nā hōʻailona ʻole wahaheʻe: kūloko, hōʻike ʻana i nā helehelena, nā lole, nā ʻano. Hoʻopili ke kino i ko mākou mau manaʻo a pau, ʻaʻole naʻe i hiki i nā mea a pau ke ʻike.

Pehea ʻoe e ʻike ai i kahi mea aloha e aloha ai iā ʻoe inā ʻaʻole ʻoe maʻa?

E ʻike i kona mau maka iā ʻoe. E hālāwai me nā ʻumi a me nā makemake i nā maka. ʻO ke kanaka e ʻoki ʻia i nā ʻuhane, ʻaʻole loa ʻoe e hele ma ke ala. E hoʻāʻo ʻo ia i nā ʻano āpau e kamaʻilio me ʻoe a e huki paha i kou nānā.

Pehea e ʻike ai ʻaʻole makemake ke kanaka iaʻu e like me kahi hoaaloha?

ʻO ka mea mua, e nānā i nā hoʻololi i kāna hana. I ke kanaka aloha, ʻo ke kani a me ke ʻano o ka ʻōlelo e loli. E nānā mau aku ʻo ia iā ʻoe. ʻAʻole i maʻalahi ka hūnā i ka kamaʻilio ʻana me ʻoe.

ʻO ka hōʻailona nui i kēia kūlana he hilahila. ʻO kahi kanaka i hikiʻole ke hoʻohiki iā ʻoe, hoʻomaka koke e hilahila a nānā i kahi mamao? I kēia manawa ua ʻoi aku ʻo ia ma mua o kahi hoaaloha, a hoʻomaka ʻo ia e hoʻomaopopo hou i kāna ʻano.

He aha ka mea e hana mai ana inā ʻike ʻoe i ke kanaka e makemake ai?

He nui wale nā ʻōnaehana o ka uku, ma hope o ke kiaʻi ʻana wale i kāna ʻano a me kāna mau hana. ʻAʻole hoihoi mai nā kānaka i ka pilina, no laila e pāʻani pū me ia no kekahi manawa, e hana i kahi mea hiki ʻole ke lilo iā ia ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi.

ʻOaka pilikino, pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo inā ua mākaukau ʻoe no nā pilina a me ke kuleana. Inā pēlā, aloha wale ʻoe iā ʻoe iho, e nānā iā ʻoe iho, ʻakaʻaka a kali i ka manawa kūpono e hōʻike ʻia ai ke kāne iā ia iho.

ʻO kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e pili ana i ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kahi ʻōpiopio i ka ʻoihana. ka pūnaewele

1) Pono i kamaʻilio liʻiliʻi iā ia.
Mai ʻae ʻoe iā ia e pili ana i kou palaualelo. E ho'āʻo i kekahi manawa e kūkākūkā i nā kumuhana koʻikoʻi, akā ʻaʻole e kaʻana me lākou.

2) He mea hoʻokaumaha.
Inā hūnā ka pilina ma kekahi mau hebedoma, mai makaʻu e haʻalele i ka pūnaewele me ka liʻiliʻi i hoʻokahi manawa i waena o ke kamaʻilio ʻana, aʻo ka haʻalele ʻana i nā kānalua. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hele mau me ka ho'ākāka ʻole ʻole no kēia ma ke ʻano o ka pūnaewele i haki ʻole, a i ʻole ke pani ʻana.

4) Hana i kāna mea e hana ai.
E aʻo i ke ʻano mele a nā mea āna e hoʻolohe nei, a me kāna mea he hoihoi ʻole.

5) E hele aloha.
E ho'āʻo e wehe a ʻakaʻaka i nā kiʻi a pau i kāu leka. Mai kākau i nā huaʻōlelo a me nā mea ʻole. Mai ʻōlelo i nā mea makemake ʻole ai a hōʻino ʻole iā ia. E maikaʻi. E ʻoluʻolu e ʻoluʻolu pono iā ia ma ka ʻōlelo pili me ʻoe.

6) Lawe i ka makemake i kona ola.
E nīnau iā ia i nā nīnau e pili ana i kona mau hoaaloha, nā leʻaleʻa a me nā hana. E ʻōlelo ʻo hiki iā ʻoe ke kōkua mau iā ia a hāʻawi i nā ʻōlelo aʻo. Eia naʻe, mai paleʻino lākou. E hoʻomaha mālie ʻo ia e kamaʻilio pū me ʻoe.

7) mai lawe i kahi hana hoʻomau.
ʻAʻole e nīnau iā ia i kou manawa e kamaʻilio ai i ka manawa ʻē a i ka manawa āna e kākau aku ai iā ʻoe. E kamaʻilio maikaʻi iā ia. Inā makemake ʻoe iā ia, e kākau hou ʻo ia iā ʻoe;

Pehea ʻoe e kamaʻilio ai e makemake ke kanaka i kahi pen pen?

Nā mea hōʻike e hōʻike i kona aloha ʻana iā ʻoe:

Hāʻawi kekahi kanaka iā ʻoe i nā hoʻopiʻi unobtrusive.
Inā ma mua ka kākau ʻana o ka kāne i ka kākau ʻana, a ma hope o kekahi manawa ua hoʻomaka ʻo ia e hahai i ka huaʻōlelo a me nā hemahema, a laila he hōʻailona maikaʻi kēia.
ʻAʻohe ʻōlelo manaʻo ʻole
ʻO kahi makemake hoihoi i kou ola.
Ke hoʻohālikelike nei i kona mau hoaaloha a ʻo ʻoe, hoʻopiʻi iā ʻoe.
Hoʻohana pinepine ʻia nā Phrases i ke kamaʻilio ʻana, kahi e mihi ai ʻo ia i kou waiho ʻole ʻana ma kahi wahi.
Ua kākau ʻo ia ua nele iā ʻoe.
ʻO nā pane e pili ana i nā kaikamahine ʻē aʻe (ma ke ʻano o ka hoʻonaʻauao o kēia wā).
E hōʻike ana i kou hoihoi i kāu mau leʻaleʻa.
E hoʻomaka mua ka papa inoa.
Aia kēlā ma kāu ʻaoʻao.
ʻLelo, e hoʻāʻo nei e like me ka ʻakaʻaka.

ʻO nā palapala mai kahi kāne i hōʻoluʻolu aloha i ke kaikamahine:

e like me ka papa palapala ma ke ao, me ka hala ole a me ka hana hewa.
aia nā nīnau e kōkua iā ia e ʻike maikaʻi iā ʻoe: e pili ana i kou ʻohana, hana / hoʻopaʻa ʻia, nā leʻaleʻa, nā mele punahele, nā puke, nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni, etc.
hoʻomākeʻaka, me ka witty (maikaʻi hoʻi, me kekahi pōpō) hoʻomākeʻaka,
nā ʻoluʻolu a me nā hoʻohālikelike (me kou manaʻo, ʻoiai) me nā kaikamāhine ʻē aʻe āna i ʻike ai,
me nā moʻolelo o kahi ʻōpio e pili ana iā ia iho, e hōʻike ana iā ia e makemake ʻoe e ʻike iā ʻoe,
loaʻa nā nīnau e pili ana i nā mea e hana ai ma kahi kūlana i hōʻike ʻia - ua makemake ʻia ʻo ia i kou manaʻo i ka leka uila.
me nā mālamalama like ʻole - ʻaʻole palupalu a me nā hewa ʻole, akā me ka pā o ka eroticism,
hoʻohui i nā huaʻōlelo penei: "E nānā wau i kāu pane," "Nalo wau iā ʻoe," "Pehea wau e makemake e honi iā ʻoe i kēia manawa," "ʻAʻole wau e hiki ke kali no kā mākou hālāwai," a me nā mea like,

A e nānā pono pehea e hoʻopau ai ke kanaka i kāna mau leka: ʻo "Bye" maʻalahi, "Chao" a i "Well, pono wau e hele" e hōʻike ana ʻaʻole ʻoe maikaʻi iā ia.

He ʻokoʻa ʻē aʻe ia: "Aloha wau e hoʻopau i kā mākou nūpepa, akā pono wau e holo i ka hana. E ʻike koke iā ʻoe "a" ʻO ka mea maikaʻi loa, e haele ana au iā ʻoe a hiki i koʻu loaʻa ʻana o kāu leka aʻe. "

Oe makemake paha i ka ʻatikala pehea e hoʻomohala ai i kahi kāne.

Hoʻohālikelike

I kēia manawa ʻaʻole ʻoe e kahaha i kekahi me ka kamaʻilio e nā mea kākau.

Ma kahi o nā leka pepa, ua kākau ʻia nā leka uila, a e hoʻomaikaʻi i ka Pūnaewele, ua hoʻomāhuahua a hiki i kā lākou kaha. A ʻoiai ua pōkole loa nā leka, nā moʻolelo ma ka naʻau e like me ka wā ma mua.

ʻIke maopopo ka Flirting i ke ola maoli, akā ma ka Pūnaewele ua ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o ka ʻike ʻana i nā manaʻo o kahi kāne. I mea e hoʻomaopopo ai inā ʻo ke kanaka āu e makemake ai ma ka moʻolelo Pūnaewele, pono ʻoe e ʻimi i kāna ala o ka kamaʻilio pū ʻana me ʻoe.

I kēiaʻatikala, ʻike ʻoe i nā hōʻailona nui e haʻi iā ʻoe e pili ana iā ʻoe e makemake paha kahi pen pen. Inā makemake ke kanaka ʻōpiopio i ke aloha, e hoʻāʻo ʻo ia e kōkua i kāna interlocutor, e nānā iā ia i kona helehelena ma ka pūnaewele, kākau mua nā mea mua, a komo i loko o kēlā me kēia lā. Inā noi ke kanaka i nā ʻōlelo aʻo, makemake ʻia ʻo ia i kou manaʻo pilikino, a noi ʻo ia iā ʻoe i kahi nīnau pilikino ponoʻī, a laila hiki iā mākou ke ʻōlelo no ka mea ʻaʻole ʻoe e aloha iā ia.

Mea i hoʻomākaukau ʻia e Dilara kūikawā no agydar.ru

Helu helu 1. Ua makemake ke kāne i ke kamaʻilio pū ʻana.

E nānā i kāna ʻano o ka paʻa, ka mea a me nā haʻahaʻa ākea o ke kamaʻilio. ʻO ke kanaka'ōpiopio i ke aloha e hoʻonohonoho i kahi leo hohonu, kū maluhia e like me ka manaʻo. Hiki i kahi kāne ke hōʻike iā ia iho me ke ana a me ka pōkole pōkole, makemake e hoʻomaopopo i ka nānā.

E nānā inā mālama ke nānā ʻōpio i ke kanaka ʻōpiopio. Inā hoʻohiki mau ʻo ia i kona mau maka i nā ʻaoʻao, hōʻike wale kēia ʻike.

E nānā i ke ʻano o ke ʻano ʻōpiopio me nā malihini. Ua maʻalahiʻo ia i ka huli a nalo wale ke kamaʻilio kolohe? ʻAno palaki ke kāne hōʻino ma mua. ʻAʻoleʻo ia e hoʻolohe i kekahi, e nānā ana i ka interlocutor? Hiki paha i ua ʻōpio ke ʻano aloha.

Helu helu 2. He hoihoi ʻo ia iā ʻoe.

Inā ʻāeʻaka ke kanaka, ʻae ʻo ia i ka hoʻowahāwahā ʻole, akā hoʻowahāwahā ʻole, he mea ʻole ʻo ia. I ka like like, hoʻāʻo ke kanaka ʻōpio e hoʻonāukiuki i kahi pane, hoʻomohala ʻana i kahi kāʻei holo piha. E ʻohi, e mālama i kahi kūkala leʻaleʻa!

ʻO kahi hōʻailona hōʻailona o ka hōʻike ʻana i nā manaʻo he makemake ia i ke ola pilikino. Ke hoʻomaka nei ke kanaka e nīnau e pili ana i nā ʻohana? E ʻike pehea ka hele ʻana o ke ao holoʻokoʻa? Ua pane ʻoe iā ia.ʻO kahi koho ʻē aʻe no ka hoʻomohala ʻana i kahi hanana e ʻōlelo ana e hoʻomaka ka ʻōpio ʻo ia iho e kaʻana i ka ʻike pilikino, e kūkākūkā i nā mea ākea a noi i nā ʻōlelo ʻōlelo. Hōʻike kaʻoiaʻiʻo nui i ka makemake.

Pane aku ke kāne, e hoʻomaikaʻi nei i kāu akamai, a ma ka hālāwai ʻana hoʻi ua ʻike nani ʻoe? Ua pili kona aloha.

Makemake e hōʻike i ka manaʻo maoli o ke ʻōpio, e nānā i kāna ʻano i waena o kāna mau hoaaloha maikaʻi loa. ʻIke ʻole ʻoe i ke alo o ke kanaka e ho'āʻo nei e ʻōlelo ʻole i ka ʻōlelo kolohe a ʻaʻole haʻi i nā moʻolelo kolohe? ʻO ka manaʻo o ka luahine e kū nei i mea nui iā ia. Ke hoʻāʻo nei ʻo ia e kāohi i kāna ʻōlelo a ʻaʻole hoʻokaumaha pinepine ʻia, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole ʻae kona mau hoa. I ka like like, hoʻāʻo ke kanaka ʻōpio e hōʻike ua mahalo ʻo ia i ka interlocutor.

Hōʻike pinepine pinepine i ke kāne kāne kūʻokoʻa i kona makemake i ka hoʻokūkū. Hele mai ia mai kahi mamao loa a e ʻimi ana inā ʻoe e moe nei me kekahi? ʻOiaʻiʻo, makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe, inā ʻaʻole, ʻaʻole i ala mai ka ʻona like ʻole. Inā ke ʻōpio nei ke kāne e lawe i ke kaikamahine i kekahi ʻōpio ʻē aʻe, ʻo ia ke ʻike nei he wahine aloha wale nō.

Helu helu 3. Puhi ke keikikāne o kekahi mau kaikamahine

Lohe i ka ʻikepili āna e hōʻike ai iā ia iho e pili ana i nā kaikamahine ʻē aʻe. Aia paha ua noi ke kanaka iā ʻoe no nā ʻōlelo i hoʻopili ʻia a hoʻohuihui ʻo ia iā ia e makemake iā Sveta mai kahi pā kokoke. I kēia hihia, ua maopopo nā mea āpau.

Inā kānalua ka kāne ke koena o nā luna wahine, ua hoʻokau ʻia kona naʻau e ʻoe. Inā ʻōlelo ke kanaka ʻōpio ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke loaʻa he hoa, ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻo ia ka makemake e pili i nā manaʻo no ʻoe.

Aia kahi ʻano no nā kāne hakakā insincere. ʻIke lākou i nā moʻo kaikamahine he lanakila. E hoʻāʻo e pale iā ʻoe iho i kēlā poʻe. Hoʻokomo ʻia kā lākou ʻano hana i kahi ʻano kūpono o ke kamaʻilio ʻana, nā alahele, ka haʻaheo nui.

Hoʻohākaʻa nā kāne he nui iā lākou iho he wahine, makemake lākou e hoʻopili i ke kaikamahine a lili lākou iā lākou. Ke kamaʻilio mau nei ka ʻōpio i nā mea pili i ke aloha i mua o ke aloha? E nānā inā pēlā. Inā ʻaʻole, e hoʻomaopopo ʻoe e hana wale nō ia i kēia mea.

ʻO ka helu helu 4. Hāpai ʻo ia e hoʻoweliweli iā ʻoe me ka heluhelu pono ʻana.

ʻO ka makahiki o ka holomua ʻenehana e hoʻopili i ka pilina interpersonal. ʻAʻole hele maʻalahi nā kamaʻāina āpau i nā kamaʻilio maka, akā he nui ka makemake e kamaʻilio ma o ka pūnaewele kelepona a i ʻole ma ke kelepona.

Ma ka letio āu i ʻike ai i ka ltul punc kūpono a me ka lōʻihi loa o ka huaʻōlelo "Nūpepa i kahi leka ..."? Koho ke kanaka i nā huaʻōlelo e mahalo ai i ka interlocutor me ka mākaʻikaʻi pili. Hāʻawi ʻo ia i ka manawa makemake e hōʻike i kona ʻike a me nā ʻike wikiwiki.

E nānā i ka manawa e hea ai ʻoe a pehea hoʻi ka lōʻihi o ke kamaʻilio ʻana. Pio paha ke kanaka i ka wā o ka kamaʻilio ʻana? Inā pēlā, ua aloha ʻo ia a makaʻu i ka ʻakaʻaka. ʻO ke kamaʻilio ʻana i ke kelepona he hana kūmau loa, no ka mea ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike ʻē kekahi, ke hoʻohana wale ʻoe i ka leo. I nā hihia e kāhea aku ai kahi ʻōpio i ka hihia, a ʻo ke kamaʻilio ʻana e lōʻihi ma mua o 2 mau minuke, ʻaʻole ia he makemake.

Hoʻomaopopo ka māka maʻamau i nā leka a me nā ʻōlelo ma ka paia. E hahai i nā kiʻi a ke kanaka e makemake ai i nā ʻoihana pūnaewele. ʻAʻole paha ia i makemake i ke kaikamahine a Nastya, ka mea i kū ma kahi o kēlā me kēia kiʻi.

Ke hoʻohana nei ke kāne i nā pōpoki i nā leka a kākau paha paha ma ka ʻōlelo maloʻo? E nīnau e pili ana i nā mea nui, makemake e hoʻonui i ke kamaʻilio? E hoʻolei i nā wikiō a i ʻole nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni? Hāʻawi ʻo ia i ka mea e kamaʻilio hua hua ʻia. Makemake nui ke ʻōpio i ka hoʻomohala holomua o ka pilina.

ʻO ka helu helu 5. Makemake ʻo Guy e like ke kokoke loa

E aʻo e ʻike i ka ʻōlelo o ke kino. ʻIke ʻole kēlā iā ia e hoʻopā pinepine iā ʻoe "ma ka manawa"? Mālama i ka lima lōʻihi aku ma mua o ka mea e pono ai? Hele mai a kokoke paha ʻoe i kahi hui maʻamau? Hōʻike kēia mau mea i kona aloha.

Ma kahi keu o nā ʻano loiloi, ʻike ʻoe ʻaʻole i haʻalele ke kanaka ʻōpiopio i kona mau maka? Mahalo ʻo ia i nā hiʻohiʻona. Hoʻopaʻa i ka maka, honi hou ʻo ia a ʻike i ka loaʻa ʻana iā ia i ka wela.

E makaʻala i ka hōʻailona ʻōlelo, e kōkua a maopopo iā ʻoe ke makemake nei i ke kanaka a i ʻole.I ka wā o ke kamaʻilio ʻana, ʻaʻole ka laka o ka interlocutor e kau i kona mau lima ma kona umauma a me nā mea kiʻi manuahi? Ua wehe ʻo ia i ke kamaʻilio. ʻO kahi hōʻailona o ke aloha nō ka pale ʻana i ke kino i mua, ma ke ʻano like me ka makemake o ke kāne e ʻike kokoke loa. Hiki iā ia ke neʻe pinepine ma luna o ka lūlū i kekahi mea i kou pepeiao aʻo ke paʻi ʻana i kou lima.

ʻO ka helu 6. Hāʻawi ʻo ia i ke kākoʻo holoʻokoʻa.

ʻO ke kāne e aloha ana e kōkua i ke kaikamahine āna e makemake ai. E nānā i ka mea a ka hoʻolaha e pili ana? Mahalo paha ke kanaka e lawe aku iā ʻoe e ka kaʻa i kou ala kahi a kōkua paha me ka neʻe.

E mālama i ka pili ʻole i ka launa maikaʻi ʻole, ka mea i hōʻike ʻia i ke kūʻai ʻana mai i kāu kīpē punahele a i ʻole ke kauoha ʻana i ka pizza i ka home. Aia i loko o nā kikoʻī. Pehea ka mālama ʻana o ke kāne iā ʻoe? Ke kūʻai aku nei ʻo ia i ka lāʻau inā maʻi ʻoe? Me ka pane hōʻoia, hiki iā ʻoe ke mālama palekana me ka hui pū.

Ke hopohopo nei kahi kanaka uʻi e pili ana i kāna makemake. Hoʻomaopopo i ke ʻano o kona kāhea ʻana? E nīnau ʻoe i nā nīnau e pili ana i hea ʻoe? Hōʻike kēia mau mea i nā manaʻo koʻikoʻi. ʻAʻohe kanaka e hoʻopau i ka manawa ma kahi kaikamahine e aloha ʻole ʻole iā ia. ʻO nā kāne a puni lākou inā makemake lākou e hoʻomohala i kahi pilina pili.

Helu helu 7. ʻAʻole makemake ke kanaka e kamaʻilio me nā kaikamahine ʻē aʻe

E nānā pehea i kāna hana ʻana me ke koena o nā ʻelele wahine. Ehia mau mea lākou e kāhea ai a hoʻohemo? Inā makemake ʻoe iā ia, ʻaʻole ia e palaka a hoʻohenehene paha me kekahi.

Inā ʻoe e ʻike i ka hui āpau makemake ia e hui pū me ʻoe, a ʻaʻole me Tanya, Anya, Sveta, a ʻo ʻoe wale nō ka mea e pono ai. Inā ʻaʻo kahi kāne me ka wahine āpau ma loko o kahi radius he ʻumi mau mile, he wahine wale nō ia.

I ka wā e kamaʻilio ai e pili ana i nā kaikamahine ʻē aʻe, ke hōʻole anei ke kanaka ʻōpiopio e pane i nā nīnau? Hōʻike kēia ʻoiaʻiʻo ua hōʻike mua ʻo ia iā ʻoe ma ke ʻano he hoa pule. ʻO nā kūkākūkā o nā manaʻo i hala ʻole a i ʻole nā kauā wahine hilahila ʻole iā ia, ʻike ka mea ʻōpio i kēia ʻano ʻano hoʻopiʻi ma kāna ʻaoʻao.

ʻO ka helu helu 8. Ua hōʻike ʻo ia iā ʻoe i nā mea aloha

ʻO kahi hōʻailona maopopo o ke aloha kanaka e ʻike ʻo ia i kona mau hoahānau, nā kaikuahine, nā mākua a me nā hoaaloha maikaʻi loa. Makemake ʻo ia e hōʻike i nā poʻe a pau āna i koho ai iā ʻoe he hoa. He nui nā kāne e hoʻoholo i kēia ma hope o ʻeono mau mahina o ke kamaʻilio ʻana, i kekahi manawa ʻoi aku.

Hoʻopili i nā mea āu e hana pū ai, nā wahi āu e kipa aku ai. Inā kāhea kekahi kāne i nā mea maʻamau ʻole e hui pū i nā hālāwai, ʻo ia kā kekahi he wahine aloha wale nō ʻo ia.

E hoʻoholo i ke kiʻekiʻe o ka pilina. Hana anei ʻoe i nā ʻoihana maʻamau e like me nā hoaaloha, a i ʻole paha ʻoe i kekahi mau hana ʻohana ma ke ʻano he pānaʻi kūʻai ʻana a i ʻole hele i ka hale kaila? Ināʻai ʻoe i ka pāʻina pāʻina a hele pū pū no ka ʻai, ʻoi loa ka manaʻo o ke kanaka ʻōpiopio iā ʻoe me kahi hoa e hiki mai ana.

ʻO kahi hōʻailona e makemake nui ai ke kāne i ke kaikamahine: ʻo ia ke kāhea iā ʻoe no ka hele / i ke kiʻiʻoniʻoni / i kahi kiʻi paʻi, kahi wale nō e hele mai ana kekahi mau kāne. Ma kēia ala, ua kokoke ākea ke kanaka ʻōpio ua makemake ʻo ia i hiki i ke pae hou.

Helu 9. Koho ke kanaka i nā wahi aloha no nā hālāwai

ʻO ke ala e ʻoi loa ke ʻike i nā makemake maoli o ke ʻōpio e loiloi i nā ʻōnaehana āu e hoʻolilo ai i ka manawa. Ua ʻike paha ʻoe i nā kihi ʻana i kiki ʻana iā lākou a puni? ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole palupalu ke kāne, no laila ua koho ʻo ia i kahi kūpono. Inā noho ʻo ia ma kahi i ka hale kaukanna o ke kulanui a ke kono paha iā ʻoe ma McDonald's, he pilina aloha loa kāu pilina.

Kāhea ʻia? Nui, helu i ke ʻano kiʻiʻoniʻoni. Inā he puʻu mele aloha a i ʻole nā melodrama haehae ia, makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe. I nā hihia a ke kanaka ʻōpio e kono aku iā ʻoe e nānā i kahi kiʻi ʻoniʻoni, thriller, horror or western, no ka mea, ʻaʻohe o kēlā mea e hele i ka hale hulahula me.

ʻAʻole ʻoe e hiamoe i ka pō, e ao ai ka wī e pili ana i kahi kāne? Hoʻopili i kahi hana piha piha! E hoʻoholo i ke ʻano o ka pili, e makaʻala i nā ʻōlelo hoʻopiʻi, ke kani o ke kamaʻilio a hahai i ka ʻōlelo o ke kino. Hōʻike maoli maoli i ka mālama a mālama pono paha ke kanaka iā ʻoe a i ʻole, inā hāʻawi ʻo ia i ke kākoʻo.E hāhai i kāna kamaʻilio ʻana me nā kaikamahine ʻē aʻe, e nīnau i nā nīnau no ke ʻano pilikino a manaʻo i kahi pane kikoʻī.

Pehea e ʻike ai inā makemake paha ke kāne a aloha paha paha iā ʻoe

Pehea kāna kamaʻilio ʻana iā ʻoe. ʻO ke ʻano o ke kamaʻilio e kamaʻilio pū ai me ʻoe e hiki ke haʻi nui i kāna ʻano iā ʻoe. ʻO ia nō, e hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻo ia iā ʻoe me kona ʻano aloha, a i ʻole nō ia he hoa aloha? E hoʻāʻo e hōʻike i nā kiʻi aʻe:

Kāna mālama wale ʻo ia iā ʻoe i ke kamaʻilio ʻana, a nalo paha, a hoʻohaʻahaʻa paha ia? ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo paha he hilahila ʻo ia iā ʻoe, no ka mea, makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe!
Pehea ka maʻalahi o ka hūnā ʻia mai ke kamaʻilio ʻana mai a iā ʻoe? Malia paha i ka wā e kamaʻilio pū me ʻoe, kekahi i kāhea ʻia a kāhea ʻia paha. Inā ma hope o ka poina i ua ʻōpio nei ke pili aku i ke kumuhana o kāu kamaʻilio ʻana, malia ʻaʻole paha ke makemake nui ʻana i ka mea āu e kamaʻilio nei, a manaʻo paha ʻoe he mea ʻaʻole pono ia iā ia.
Ua hoʻomaikaʻi anei ʻo ia iā ʻoe? Inā pēlā, a ʻoi aku kēia e hana pinepine ʻia, pinepine paha ka ʻōpio iā ʻoe. A i ʻole, no ka mea, hoʻohana pinepine i kou inoa no ka mea makemake ia.
E hoʻolohe pū i ka mea āna e ʻōlelo aku ai iā ʻoe. He mea ʻolelo ia iā ʻoe? Mai wikiwiki e huhū. ʻAe, he ʻokoʻa nā mea ʻakaʻaka, akā inā i kāna kamaʻilio ʻana ia i kekahi manawa hoʻohenehene hōʻino ʻia iā ʻoe, e hōʻike paha i kēia ke hāliʻi wale ʻana a i ʻole e ʻoluʻolu.

Ke lawe nei ʻo ia me ʻoe i kahi mea pilikino - ʻo ia kahi mea e maopopo ai inā makemake kekahi kanaka iā ʻoe? ʻAʻohe maʻamau kahi kāne i ka haʻi ʻana i nā manaʻo pilikino, kekahi mau manaʻo a i pilikia paha i kekahi. ʻO kekahi manawa i paʻa lākou i ka manaʻo no ka lōʻihi. No laila, inā ka ʻōpio e ʻōpio i nā mea like me ʻoe, nā hoʻolālā pilikino no ka wā e hiki mai ana, nā pilikia ʻohana - ʻo ia ka mea i lanakila ai ʻoe i kona hilinaʻi a, ʻoiaʻiʻo paha, makemake ʻo ia i kahi pilina koʻikoʻi me ʻoe.
Makemake nui ʻo ia i kāu hana ma mua? Ma ke kaʻina o ka kamaʻilio, hiki koke mai, hiki i ke kamaʻilio ke hele i ka wā ma mua. E pili ana i nā pilina i hala. He aha kēia manaʻo o ke ʻōpio e kākoʻo i kēia kumuhana e ʻōlelo ai, ʻoi aʻe, ʻo ia nō iho e nīnau i nā nīnau e pili ana i kēia? Ke ʻimi nei ʻo ia e ʻimi inā makemake ʻoe i nā kāne ʻē aʻe, inā ʻoe e kū ʻole, inā makemake ʻoe i kahi pilina hou.

Eia kekahi, i ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ke aloha o ke kāne i ke kaikamahine, ʻo kahi hōʻailona nui kona ʻano i kekahi mau kaikamahine.

E nānā i kāna pili ʻana i kou manaʻo. Loaʻa anei ia he mea nui iā ia? A i ʻole he hoaʻāina ʻē paha nona nona, me ia, e like me nā kaikamāhine a pau, e kū like like?
E hoʻolohe i kāna mea e ʻōlelo ai no nā pilina o mua. Inā he pōkole kona mau moʻolelo, ua piha i ka ʻakaʻaka a me nā ʻōlelo hoʻomāʻewaʻewa, aia nō ʻaʻole iā ia ke koʻikoʻi e pili ana i nā pilina, a ʻaʻole paha ʻoe i lilo i kūʻokoʻa no kēia mea. Akā e makaʻala, i kekahi manawa ma hope o ke ʻano like ʻole e hūnā i ka makemake e hoʻolilo iā ʻoe.
Pehea ʻoe e kamaʻilio ai ʻaʻole kokoke i kahi kokoke? Ua kākau anei ʻo ia iā ʻoe, a i ʻole ia e hoʻomanaʻo mai i ka hui ʻana i ka hālāwai? E hopohopo paha ke kamaʻilio ʻana ma ke kelepona, a i ʻole e ʻāhewa ʻia nā moʻolelo sms? ʻAe, ʻaʻole kēia ke kuhikuhi koʻikoʻi, a makemake paha ʻaʻole ia e makemake like me ka kamaʻilio ʻana ma ka Pūnaewele. No laila, mai wikiwiki e ukiuki inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e kamaʻilio ma nā pūnaewele ʻoihana e like me ka makemake. Mahalo paha kona hauʻoli iā ʻoe?

Kūkā hou aʻe pehea e hoʻoholo ai inā makemake paha ke kanaka iā ʻoe e nānā i ka manawa a me kahi āu e hālāwai ai.

He aha e hiki ai ke haʻi i ka manawa a me kahi? Hoʻomanaʻo, ʻike paha ʻoe i kekahi i kekahi i nā ʻoihana haunaele, ma nā pāʻina, e kipa aku ana i nā hoaaloha, a e kāhea paha iā ʻoe e hele pū hoʻokahi? A inā ʻoe i hele mai no ia, he hau nui, hea ʻoe a hea ʻoe i hiki ke lohe i ka mea āu e kamaʻilio nei a i makemake paha ʻoe i kahi ʻoluʻolu a me ka ʻoluʻolu? A i ʻole hana paha iā ʻoe i kahi mea kūikawā - "kona wahi", kahi āna e makemake ai e hele mai e noʻonoʻo i kahi mea nui.
Ke hui nei ʻoe i ka manawa kūpono wale nō iā ia, no ka laʻana, ma hope o kāna hana, kekahi ʻoihana, a nāna nō e mālama i kou kūlana? Inā kamaʻilio ʻia nā ka hopena o luna a me nā kūlana ʻē aʻe i ka mea e makemake ke aloha iā ʻoe, mai holo i ka hana. Hana ʻia kēia mau mea āpau ʻaʻole ʻoe e kūlike i ke ʻano o kāu aloha. Inā maopopo ʻoe inā makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe, a i ʻole manaʻo e ʻaʻohe hewa ʻole o kēia, hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi iā ia no kou mau manaʻo iho.
Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ʻano keu, akā pinepine i loko o kahi pālua kahi e kū nei ka lokomaikaʻi, hopohopo ʻelua e haʻi wale nō wale nō ma muli o ka makaʻu no ka manaʻo ʻole o kēlā me kēia mau manaʻo. Akā, mai hana pākuʻi me nā hōʻailona o ka nānā, hoʻohanohano a me ka hōʻike ʻana o nā manaʻo, i ʻole e makaʻu ai i ke kanaka, inā ʻo ia e aloha iā ʻoe. ʻAʻohe makemake ʻoe makemake e like me ka hune hehena. No laila e waiho nā mea āpau i kona papa, ʻaʻole me ke kumu ʻo ia e ʻōlelo ai "loaʻa i nā manawa a pau nā manawa." E kūlike, e lilo ʻoe iho, a me nā manaʻo, inā he ʻano maoli lākou, e kū maoli ana nō!

ʻO nā hōʻailona e makemake ai ke kanaka iā ʻoe

Hiki i ka ʻōlelo kino ke haʻi aku i ka nui o ka pilina o ke kāne kāne a ʻōpio iā ʻoe. E hoʻāʻo e noʻonoʻo i kāna ʻano me ʻoe:

Ua hoʻopiʻi ʻo ia iā ʻoe "ma ka make ʻole"? Paʻi kona kuli ma kou nānā ʻana i kahi kiʻiʻoniʻoni a ʻaʻole ʻo ia "ʻike ʻole" ia. A i ʻole lima i kona mau lima lima i kou hoʻouna ʻana i kahi mea. E hōʻike paha kēia i ke ʻano e makemake loa ke kanaka iā ʻoe.
ʻIke pinepine ʻo ia iā ʻoe? Ua ʻike paha ʻoe i kahi hui nui me nā kānaka he nui, eia naʻe, e ʻike pinepine iā ia iā ʻoe. Kūʻē inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻike i kona nānā?
A he aha kāna e hana ai nou? Ke kuhi nei ʻo ia i kāu mea āu e aloha ai, ʻo ka mea āu e aloha ai. Ua hoʻāʻo ʻo ia e hoʻohana ia mea e leʻaleʻa iā ʻoe? (He aha ke ʻano o nā pōpoki e kōkua i nā pōpoki e like me nā kaikamahine, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike ma ke heluhelu ʻana i ka ʻatikala ma ka pūnaewele.
Ua mālama ʻo ia iā ʻoe? I kekahi ahiahi maloʻo, wikiwiki e hoʻolei i kāu pālule a hāʻule i lalo ma hope o ke aʻo ʻana / hana a i ʻole ʻoe e hele i kahi keʻa iʻa? Mākaukau mau i ke kōkua inā he wā i wāwahi ʻia a, ʻoiaʻiʻo, nā palaka me nā mea ʻoluʻolu punahele? Inā pēlā, e kākau i kahi mau helu hou aku i kou aloha.

Ua kokoke anei ia i nā manawa paʻakikī? E like me kā mākou i ʻōlelo ai, he ʻokoʻa loa nā kāne. A ʻo nā waimaka wahine ʻeha hoʻohālikelike iā lākou. Nolaila, ina he mea e kokoke paha ia oe, i ka wa ou i kaumaha ai, e holoi i kou mau waimaka, a e hooikaika e hooluolu ia oe, oia no paha oe i manao ole oe ia ia. Inā ʻaʻole, ʻaʻole ia e hoʻopau wale i ka manawa.
I ka ʻike pehea e nānā ai inā makemake kekahi kanaka iā ʻoe, e nānā pono i hoʻokahi hiʻohiʻona - ka hana kikowaena. E ʻike a ʻike ʻole ʻia paha ʻoe i kāu neʻe ʻana. ʻO ke kumu, ke inu ʻoe mai ka ipu aniani, inu ʻo ia. Inā noho ʻoe i kalaiwa hele ʻana, mea like ia. A i ʻole ʻoe i nā kala like ʻole, e noho ʻoe ma ka paena like - he mau hōʻailona maikaʻi kēlā a pau. Inā kāhāhā nā lua o nā mea like i nā mea like, he nui kēia. Inā he ʻakaʻaka ʻo ia i kāu mau haʻahaʻa, ʻo ia nā kikoʻī.
ʻAi pinepine ke kāne, e nānā pololei iā ʻoe. I ka manawa like, loaʻa iā ia kahi ʻano grin kūikawā a i ʻikena e pili wale ana iā ʻoe a ʻaʻole kekahi o nā wahine ʻē aʻe. ʻO kona mau maka maka i ka hopena, ʻaʻole me ka laikini, akā ua ʻike pono iā ʻoe he kaikamahine kūikawā. Ua ʻakaʻaka ʻo ia i kou ʻakaʻaka, no ka mea, makemake ʻo ia ma ka lōʻihi o ka lōʻihi.
Ua hoʻāʻo ʻo ia e ʻike hou aku iā ʻoe? No ka laʻana, ho'āʻo ka hui e kokoke kokoke iā ʻoe, ʻike pinepine i nā kumu e hui ai i waenakonu o ka hebedoma, ʻike i nā kiʻi āu e makemake ai, a i nā ʻoliʻoli āu i loaʻa ai, kahi mai ke kuli o kou kuli e hele mai ai a me ka mea i hea ʻia ai kāu mau holoholona, a laila ʻike ʻoe - he pahuhopu kāna. . ^ E Ha yM. ʻO ka manaʻo, ʻo kēia pahuhopu e hoʻokokoke a ʻoi aku.
Makemake nui ʻo ia iā ʻoe inā e hoʻopiʻi ʻo ia ʻaʻole e pāʻani a paʻi i kou lauoho. Manaʻo nui nā kāne i ka lauoho wahine nani ma mua o kou manaʻo.ʻO ka lōʻihi o kona mau lima ma kou poʻo, ke kālai nei i kona lauoho, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā hōʻailona e aloha ai ke kanaka iā ʻoe.

A pehea ʻo ia e hōʻike ai iā ʻoe i loko o kahi hui? ʻAʻole he mea leʻaleʻa e kani ai, akā inā e makemake ke kanaka iā ʻoe, e loaʻa ana paha iā ia i nā pilikia me ka ʻike e hōʻike iā ʻoe i kona mau hoa. A no ka mea, ua ʻike maoli ʻia ʻo ia e like me ke aloha. Akā ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke kāhea aku i ke kaikamahine, no ka mea ʻaʻole maopopo ʻo ia ke manaʻo pū ʻoe iā ia. No laila, mai wikiwiki e huhū ʻoe inā kānalua ke kanaka, e hoʻāʻo e hōʻike iā ʻoe i kona mau hoaaloha a me nā mea aloha.
ʻIke anei ʻoe i kona ʻohana, nā hoaaloha? ʻAuhea, ʻaʻole ia he mea koʻikoʻi ia e hoʻomaopopo i kahi hoaaloha maʻamau me kona makuahine a i ʻole a kona wā kamaliʻi paha, e like me ke kaikamahine e makemake. Inā kāhea ke kanaka iā ʻoe i ka home no ka ʻahaʻaina ʻohana a i ʻole i kāu hoa aloha punahele, ʻoiai paha he hoʻolālā āna no kāu pilina o hope.

Pehea e hoʻomaopopo ai e makemake ke keikikāne iā ʻoe

E noʻonoʻo i nā hōʻailona o kona ʻatikala e kōkua iā ia e hoʻomaopopo e makemake ʻo ia iā ʻoe. Ma ke ala, kahi hōʻailona nui o ka makemake a me ke aloha e ʻike pinepine ai i ka pili kino.

Ke hoʻāʻo nei ke keiki iā ʻoe mai hope mai. ʻO kēia ʻokoʻa, a manaʻo paha ʻaʻole ia e nele i ka wiwo ʻole e hoka, e like me ka mea maʻamau i nā pākeke. Akā ʻoliʻoli loa ia i ka ʻike ʻana iā ʻoe a ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke kali e huli a nānā i kona hele.
Hoʻopili ʻo ia i kou kakā.
ʻAno iā ʻoe ke hele nei.
E ʻimi ana i nā hewa e hoʻokani i kou lima a hoʻopaʻa i kou lima.
E kolo ana i nā mea: ke pā kula, ke pākaukau, ka papa ma muli o ka huhū.
Hiki paha iā ia ke poina i nā ʻike maʻamau e pili ana iā ʻoe: inoa a inoa paha, no ka mea ua minamina ʻo ia.
Hoʻopili i nā manamana lima me kekahi mau aniani ma muli o ka huhū.
Hoʻopili hou i nā mea āpau ma ka papa ʻaina me ka loaʻa ʻole o kahi no lākou. Pono ʻo ia e hana i kekahi mea me ia iho, no ka mea, makaʻu ʻo ia i kāna mau manaʻo.
Kuhi e nānā a keu aku i koʻikoʻi ma mua o kou alo.

Ma muli o ka nui o ka ikehu i ka ʻike ʻana o kahi kaikamahine i kāna ʻoluʻolu, hiki iā ia ke ʻano e like me ke keiki liʻiliʻi: hana i ke kani ʻana, ke pāʻani pāʻani, holo pū me nā hoaaloha ʻē aʻe. He mau hōʻailona āpau kēia e aloha ai ke kanaka ma ke kula iā ʻoe.
ʻAno koke iā ia ʻo ka pono e hoʻoponopono i kekahi o kāna kūpeʻe a huki iā ia - eia kahi hoʻopunipuni kahiko.
E hoʻomohala mau i kou lauoho i mua o kou alo. No ka mea ua hoʻoiho ʻia lākou e ka makemake e nānā maikaʻi aku, e kū ākea ʻole mai ke ʻano o nā ʻōpiopio ʻē aʻe.
Nānā mau iā ʻoe no ka lōʻihi.
He ʻohu nui kēia o ka cologne, inā ʻaʻole i ʻike ʻia kēia ma mua.
Ua ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kona kūlana no ka mea e kū ʻoi aku ka hilinaʻi, ʻoi aku ka ikaika o ka wiwo ʻole.
Ua hoʻopili ʻo ia i kona mau lehelehe, maʻamau maʻamau subconsciously.
Ke hoʻāʻo nei ʻo ia e pale iā ʻoe, no ka mea ua manaʻo ʻo ia e makemake ʻoe e noʻonoʻo iā ia ma ke ʻano he pale.
Pēlā paha, hiki iā ia ke hum i kou alo a i ʻole ai i nā mele mele, no ka mea he hauʻoli a ʻokoʻa.

Hoʻohālikelike

Ua hālāwai ʻoe me kahi kāne āu i hoʻomaka ai e aloha ai, kamaʻilio, akā, ʻaʻole maopopo kona ʻano. He kūlana kūleʻa kēia i ka wā a ke kamaʻilio pinepine ʻia nei ʻoe i ka wā e ʻohi ʻia nei i loko o kahi pilina e manaʻo ʻia ana ma mua o ka pili aloha, akā ʻoi aku ma mua o ke aloha. No laila, hoʻonui ka noʻonoʻo i nā poʻo wahine, pehea e ʻike ai e aloha kahi kanaka iā ʻoe? No ka mea ʻo ka hapanui o nā kāne, e like me ka mea i ʻōlelo mua ʻia, ʻaʻole mākaukau e haʻi pololei i ke kaikamahine e pili ana i ia. I ka nānā ʻana o kēia, pono ke nānā aku i ke ʻano o ke kino o ke kanaka ʻākena nui e ʻōlelo ʻoi aku ana ma mua o nā ʻōlelo no ka haʻi ʻana.

Manaʻo wau e nānā ʻoe i kahi wikiō e pehea e hoʻoholo ai inā makemake paha kekahi kāne iā ʻoe a ʻaʻole paha ma ka ʻōlelo kākau o nā kāne.

ʻO nā hōʻailona nui kahi e hiki ai ke ʻike inā makemake ʻoe i ke kanaka

E like me kāna kamaʻilio pū ʻana me ʻoe a me kāu pili

E hoʻāʻo nā Guys e mālama i nā kaikamahine a lākou e makemake ai. Inā ia e hāʻawi iā ʻoe e kōkua ʻo ia inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i noi no ia, e hōʻike maopopo ana kēia i ke kumu o kou makemake ʻana, a makemake paha ʻo ia e hoʻohālikelike maikaʻi iā ʻoe.Ma muli o kēia, i ʻōlelo aku ʻoe ma ka hele ʻana ʻole ʻoe e ʻike pehea e hoʻihoʻi ai i kekahi hana ma ke kelepona - ma ka pane, e hōʻike nō ʻo ia e ʻike i ka pilikia. A i ʻole, e hoʻokuʻu aku ʻo ia iā ʻoe i kou ʻailā a ʻike ʻoe ua ʻaʻahu ʻoe me ka nani ʻana. Ma keʻano laulā, ʻo kahi hopohopo kahi hōʻailona maikaʻi.

Eia nō hoʻi, ʻaʻole i haʻalele ʻia ka koho hoʻohuli - makemake ʻo ia ʻoe e hoʻokomo i kāna mau hana. ʻO ke kumu paha, hiki iā ia ke noi iā ia i kahi koho o kekahi mea, e hōʻike ana ua hilinaʻi ʻo ia i kou manaʻo. Hoʻololi pū ʻo ia me ʻoe i nā mea like ʻole - hoʻomākaukau ana i kahi kīʻaha, kahi moʻolelo a i ʻole nā kiʻi e nānā ai, a me nā mea like.

Ma ke ala i kamaʻilio pū ai kahi kāne me ʻoe

Hoʻomau mau nō ʻo ia e mālama i kahi kūkākūkā, ʻaʻohe o ka kamaʻilio pilikino ʻana a i ʻole ma nā leka. Inā loaʻa ʻole nā māka kala ʻole, hoʻāʻo ʻo ia e hoʻopiha iā lākou i kekahi mau moʻolelo a nīnau paha iā ʻoe. Nā ʻano like ʻole i loko o nā pūnaewele kalepa (ma ka launa pū, nā hoaaloha, a me kekahi mea) - ʻoiai ʻo ka leka hope loa i ke kamaʻilio ʻana mai iā ia, a laila, me ke kali ʻana o kou ʻano, e kākau hou ʻo ia iā ʻoe.

ʻO kahi hōʻailona maikaʻi hoʻi ʻoe maikaʻi i ke kanaka kīʻahaʻo ia e makemake e mālama iā ʻoe me kahi mea - kaū, ka ʻūpaʻa, nā ʻeke a me nā mea like. Inā ʻike ʻoe e ʻōpio ana kahi ʻōpio e hoʻowahāwahā iā ʻoe, a laila he hōʻailona kēia "ka hōʻailona" - ke manaʻo nui nei ia e haʻohaʻi iā ʻoe.

Ma kona mau ʻano kikowaena, ʻike, ʻawaʻaka

I ka manawa i ʻike ʻia ai ʻoe i kahi ʻoihana, e loli iki ana kāna ʻano - hiki iā ia ke ulu a ikaika ʻē aʻe paha, i ʻole ke ʻano, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka pipi. Ke kamaʻilio pū me ʻoe, hoʻāʻo ʻo ia e kokoke kokoke i ka mea - ke kū aku nei ʻo ia iā ʻoe a no kekahi mau sekona, a ʻoi aku paha ka lōʻihi, e nānā pono ana iā ʻoe, me ka hoʻolohe pono ʻana i nā mea a pau āu e ʻōlelo ai. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻāʻo e hoʻopā iā ʻoe i kekahi manawa kūpono - ke hele ʻana ma ke ala, e hōʻike ana i kekahi mea ma kāna kelepona, hoʻoponopono ʻana i kou scarf, etc. Hiki i kahi ʻeke ke kū mai ma kona maka a ʻike ʻole iā ia - i ka wā o ke kamaʻilio ʻana, i nā kekona mua o kahi hālāwai, i kona ʻike ʻana iā ia iho.

I ke ʻano o kahi kāne, he hoʻololi i ke ʻano

Ke minamina nei ʻo ia i kona ʻano helehelena, a inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia i nīnau pololei inā he maikaʻi nā mea a pau, ʻike mau ʻia he mea nui kēia iā ia - ʻono ʻo ia e hoʻoponopono i kekahi mau mea o ke kapa, hoʻopā i kona lauoho, a ma kekahi manawa ke nānā nei ʻo ia i kāna noʻonoʻo i ka aniani papaʻi.

Ke hoʻāʻo nei ʻo ia e noho kū pololei, pololei ana i kona poʻohiwi, huli iā ʻoe - ʻoiai paha ke nānā iki paha kona ʻano. Ma ke ala, nā haumāna i hoʻoilo ʻia ke nānā aku ʻoe hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻōlelo nui!

Pehea e ʻike ai inā makemake kekahi kanaka iā ʻoe ma o ka leka uila a kelepona paha

ʻAʻole hiki i kekahi poʻe ʻōpio ke hoʻoholo i ka hōʻike i ko lākou aloha i ka kamaʻilio pilikino, ʻoi aku ka ʻōlelo kelepona a i ʻole SMS.

I kēia hihia, aia kekahi mau hōʻailona e hōʻike maopopo ana i kāna aloha;

ʻO nā manawa pinepine, ʻo ka hoʻomaka ʻana o nā kelepona nāna mai iā ia. ʻOiai inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i ia kuʻuna maʻamau, e kamaʻilio pū kekahi me kekahi e like me kēlā, e loaʻa ke kumu i ke kāhea ʻana. He ʻano kau paha ma ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana a i ʻole nā pilikia e hana ai. Hiki iā ia ke haʻi aku e ʻimi nei ʻo ia i nā paʻi o ka kamaʻāina maʻamau.
E hoʻolohe i ka lōʻihi o kāu kamaʻilio ʻana. Ua kāhea ke kāne iā ʻoe no kahi kumu kikoʻī, akā ma hope o ka wehewehe ʻana i ka hihia ʻaʻole ia me ka wikiwiki ʻole e kau i luna? He hōʻailona maopopo kēia ʻo ia e makemake ʻoe iā ʻoe a me ke kumu o ke kāhea ʻana, ʻo ia nō paha, ua lōʻihi ka lōʻihi. Eia nō naʻe, inā ʻaʻohe kumu kumu kūpono ke kāhea, a maopopo iā ʻoe e ʻimi nui ana ke kanaka ʻōpio i ka hoʻonui ʻana i kāu kūkākūkā, ʻo ia kēia mea maikaʻi ʻoe i ke kanaka e kamaʻilio nei ʻoe.
Ke hoʻāʻo nei ʻo ia e kiaʻi pinepine mau iā ʻoe. Inā ʻaʻohe hālāwai āu i hoʻonohonoho ai a ʻaʻole ʻoe i ʻike ma ka Pūnaehana no kahi manawa lōʻihi, e hoʻopili mau ʻo ia iā ʻoe ma o SMS a i kāhea paha.
Malia paha i loko o nā hālāwai pilikino ke hilahila ia e kamaʻilio pū me ʻoe hou, akā hoʻonui ʻo ia i kēia no ke kamaʻilio ʻana ma ke kelepona.E hopohopo nui kekahi mau kāne, ke kokoke kokoke i ke kiʻi o ke aloha, no laila ma kahi mamao he mea maʻalahi loa ia lākou e hana i kahi manaʻo kūpono i ke kaikamahine.
ʻO ka hōʻailona paha loa ia i ʻike ʻia e ua kanaka kāu helu kelepona ma kahi ʻaoʻao pilikino ma kahi pānaehana pūnaewele, loaʻa iā ia ma o nā hoaaloha, a i ʻole ma kekahi ala ʻē aʻe. Eia naʻe, inā ʻo ia e nīnau iā ʻoe no kahi helu kelepona, e hōʻike pū nō hoʻi ia i kona makemake nui ʻole i kāu kanaka.

Pehea e hoʻomaopopo ai i kāu mea e makemake ai e ka leka uila ma ka pūnaewele

ʻO ka launa pūnaewele ma ka Pūnaewele e nui aʻe a manawa hou, akā naʻe, me ka ʻole o ke kamaʻilio ʻana o ke "ola" me kahi ʻōpiopio, he mea maʻalahi ke hoʻoholo iā ia kekahi mau manaʻo iā ʻoe.

Ke kali mai nei iā ʻoe. I kēia manawa, nui nā mea hoʻohana VC i manawa e noho ai ma kā lākou ʻaoʻao ma ke ʻano i hiki ʻole ai i nā hoaaloha ke kānalua nei no ia. Inā hele ʻoe ma ka pūnaewele a ʻike i ke ʻano ʻōpiopio i ka ʻenemi, ʻoiai no ka nui ʻaʻole he nui i hala ma mua o kekahi mau lā a i ʻole mau lā ma mua, ʻaʻole kēia ka manawa mua i hana ʻia ai kēia - me he mea lā ke kali nei ʻoe. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ke noho nei i ke kūlana o "invisibility", nānā ʻo ia i kou hele ʻana ma VK, a ʻo ka hiki ʻana o kēia mea, hoʻoholo ihola ʻo ia e hele ma o ia lā.

Hoʻomanaʻo I ka wā e loaʻa hou ai kahi pou hou ma kāu "pā", ʻike pinepine ʻia me ia. Pēlā ka mea i kāu mau kiʻi hou. Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole ia e heʻe i ka ʻōlelo ma kekahi mau moʻolelo. Ma keʻano holoʻokoʻa, ʻo kekahi hana ma kāu ʻaoʻao e hūnā mai kona maka, a ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ia ke hōʻike nei i ka makemake iā ʻoe.

He mea ikaika nō ia. ʻOiai ʻole ʻoe e kākau mua iā ia, ʻaʻole paʻakikī iā ia e hele i kēia misionari. He makemake paha paha ia i ka hele o kou lā, e kiola aku i nā kiʻi a wikiō paha, e hoʻouna aku i nā mele i ka "pā", nīnau i nā nīnau like ʻole. Ua nīnau hou ʻo ia iā ʻoe e pili ana i nā kiʻi e ʻike ʻia ana ma kāu ʻaoʻao - ke lawe ʻia lākou, ʻo wai i loko o nā kiʻi me ʻoe a me nā mea like.

He lili ia. Inā ʻike nā pou mai nā mea hoʻohana ʻē aʻe ma kāu "pā", hiki iā ia ke lau pū me lākou i nā manaʻo ʻole e hoʻomau a kākau i kekahi mea iā ʻoe iho e pili ana i kēia - e ʻoliʻoli a ka pou, e nīnau wale no ke ʻano o ke kāne, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe. Hiki iā ia ke wehewehe pono inā makemake ʻoe i kekahi. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i pane i kāna ʻelele no ka manawa lōʻihi, hoʻohenehene a hoʻowahāwahā paha ʻoe e kamaʻilio pū ana me kahi mea e makemake nui ʻia.

Ke hoʻāʻo nei ʻo ia e ʻoluʻolu. Ua huli kona ʻaoʻao i nā loulou i pili kūpono iā ʻoe. ʻO kekahi manawa ma mua aku nei ke kamaʻilio nei ʻoe i kekahi ʻano mea puʻuwai mele, kiʻi a i ʻole hōʻike ʻana, a i kēia manawa ma kāna "pā" ua loaʻa kahi manaʻo e hoʻomohala ana i kēia kumuhana - kahi kikoʻī mai ke kiʻi, kahi mele, kekahi ʻano kiʻi.

Ka makemake o kona mau hoa. Hoʻomau koke kāu mau hoaaloha a i ʻole nā hoa aloha e "like" iā ʻoe i kekahi kiʻi a i ʻole nā pou, a i ʻole e hoʻohui ʻia me he hoa lā. Ma kēia nō hoʻi e hōʻike nei ke haʻi ʻana o ke kāne i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe iā ʻoe a, ʻoiai, ke hana nei ʻoe ma ke ʻano maikaʻi.

He mea kōkua ʻo ia. ʻAʻoleʻo ia e nalo i ka waena o kahi kamaʻilio pū me ʻoe no kekahi lā mau lā. Inā pono e hele aku, e hoʻāʻo pinepine iā ʻoe e pili ana iā ia. Ua kamaʻilio pū ʻo ia no kāna mau hoʻolālā, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e nīnau no lākou.

Kaumaha ʻo ia. Inā ua hala ʻoe no nā lā he nui ma ka Pūnaewele, ʻaʻole kēia e hūnā iā ia. I ke komo ʻana o VK, e hoʻāʻo ʻo ia e ʻike ma ke kūkā kamaʻilio mua loa no ke aha āu i haʻalele ai no laila.

ʻO ka hōʻailona 1. ʻO ka hele mau ʻana o kahi kiki i kou ola

ʻO ka hōʻailona nui e makemake ai ke kāne iā ʻoe e hoʻomaka ʻoe e hālāwai me ia me ke ʻano kupaianaha i nā wahi like ʻole, ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i nā papa hana like, a ʻike hou iā ia.

Inā inā e pili ana i ka hana ʻoe me ia a aʻo pū paha - i kēlā me kēia hihia, e ʻike ʻoe iā ia e kokoke ana i nā hui, i ka lumi ʻaina, ma nā wahi ʻē aʻe. Malia paha inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i kamaʻilio ikaika, a laila e hoʻāʻo ʻo ia e kamaʻilio me ʻoe, e hōʻike iā ia iho i kekahi ala.

I kekahi manawa hana ʻia nā manawa like ʻole, he mau mea ʻokoʻa loa kekahi. Akā i kekahi hihia, he hihia kēia, a i ʻole hopena - hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻāʻo e hoʻomaopopo, akā ke hālāwai nei mākou me kēia kanaka? A i ʻole kekahi mea e alakaʻi iā mākou i kekahi?

Mai wikiwiki wale e hana i kūkulu i nā hale kākela i ka lewa, e noʻonoʻo ana i ke ʻano o kou mare ʻana me ia, i ka loaʻa ʻana o nā keiki, a noho pū kekahi me ke aloha ʻoliʻoli ma hope o ke ʻano o ka :)) He aha nā mea pono ʻole i hoʻokō ʻia a he ʻoiaʻiʻo paha, akā me kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe.

I kēia manawa kāu hana ke hoʻomaopopo nei inā makemake maoli ke kanaka maoli iā ʻoe, a he hihia wale nō paha.

Palapala 2. ʻO nā makana a me nā hōʻailona

Hāʻawi kahi kanaka ʻōpio iā ʻoe? Ke hoʻolilo nei ʻoe i nā pua, ʻoluʻolu paha iā ʻoe i nā mea liʻiliʻi? Inā ʻaʻole pili ʻole kēia, a laila pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo pili i ia, akā makemake nui anei iā ʻoe?

Ma hope o nā mea āpau, ʻo nā makana a me nā hōʻailona o ka nānā ʻana, nā hōʻailona aloha o nā pilina aloha, nā hōʻike o nā manaʻo. ʻO kahi kanaka e manaʻo ana i kahi mea no ʻoe, a ua lilo i mea makemake - e makemake loa ʻo ia e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kekahi mea, e leʻaleʻa iā ʻoe ma kekahi wahi, a hana i kahi hoʻomaikaʻi. ʻAʻole wale i nā huaʻōlelo wale nō, akā i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa - i ke ʻano o nā makana.

Inā hāʻawi ke kanaka iā ʻoe i kekahi mea, a ʻaʻole i ʻike kēia i ka lā Malaki 8, i ka wā e aloha nui ai lākou i nā kaikamahine a pau, akā no ke kumu ʻole - he hōʻailona kēia o ka makemake. ʻOiai ka manawa e hoʻomaikaʻi maoli a hāʻawi i ke kanaka i kahi ʻakaʻaka. A e nānā i kāna ʻano.

Inā ʻike ʻoe i ka ʻoliʻoli ʻoluʻolu aku iā ia, hoʻokaumaha iā ia, a piha i ka ikehu āna i hele ai e pili ana i kāna ʻoihana. aia ka loaʻa i ka makemake o nā kāne, a nui. ^ E Ha yM. Inā hōʻike ʻo ia iā ia iho me ka hana ʻole, a ʻaʻole hoʻi i hana i kou hoʻonāukiuki i kekahi hana - maikaʻi nō paha, e hōʻoia nō ʻo ia iā ia iho i kahi mea ʻē aʻe.

He mea nui loa ia i ka hāʻawi ʻole ʻana o ke kāne i mau makana, akā kahi mea hoʻomaka iā ʻoe. Ua kupanaha. ʻAʻole hiki nō kēia i nā mea pili o ka pilina, i ka wā ʻaʻohe pilina pili ʻole, akā inā tupu kēia, a laila bingo! Loaʻa ka ʻōpala maikaʻi iā ʻoe.

Pauku 3. Nānā a nānā ʻia

E manaʻoʻiʻo iaʻu - inā ua makemake ke kāne a aloha paha i kou kāne iā ʻoe, a ua aloha ʻoe iā ia, e nānā ʻo ia iā ʻoe. Aloha nā kāne me ko lākou mau maka, makemake lākou e nānā i ka wahine o ka wahine, kona ʻoluʻolu a me kāna mau kiʻi, kiʻi, a pēlā aku.

No laila, ma kou ʻaoʻao, i mea e ʻike ai i nā hōʻailona hōʻailona a me ke aloha mua, ʻo ka mea āu e pono ai ka mea nui loa. E hoʻāʻo e hele pinepine i kahi manawa maʻamau a huli ʻole ʻia ma kona ʻaoʻao. He aha kāu e ʻike ai?

Inā, ma hope o kekahi manawa, hopu ʻoe iā ia i kāu maka, ke hilahila, i kekahi manawa ke hoʻopiʻi ʻia, i kekahi manawa hopohopo - ʻike ʻia ke ʻano ʻōpio ke ʻike iā ʻoe. Ke nānā nei iā ia, ʻo ia ke makemake nei iā ia, a ua makemake mua iā ʻoe. ʻAʻole e hoʻolako ʻo Guys i kā lākou nānā a me ka manawa i nā kaikamahine ʻaʻole maikaʻi iā lākou.

Maopopo paha iā ʻoe ke ʻano o ka hoʻokūkū ʻana me kahi kāne?

E ʻike, e kaomi i ka pihi ma lalo nei.

Akā nā mea āu e makemake ai - e huki nā kānaka iā lākou e like me ke kakala, a me he mea lā ʻoe i poni ʻia me ka meli))

ʻAʻole hiki i ke kāne ke pale i ka hoʻowalewale e huli i kāu ala i hope a nānā aku iā ʻoe, a ʻo ia nō aia i kēia mau manawa hiki iā ia ke "hopu" a lawe ʻia i ka wai maʻemaʻe.
Akā inā nānā ʻoe a nānā i ke kanaka ma ke keʻena like pū me ʻoe, a ʻaʻole hoʻi i lawe i kona mau maka a nānā i nā wahi āpau, ʻaʻole wale iā ʻoe, ʻo ia kahi manawa e noʻonoʻo nui ai: he aloha nui ʻo ia iā ʻoe? Malia paha ma ka laulā ʻaʻole ʻoe i makemake iā ia, a hopohopo?

Palena 4. ʻO ka ikaika a me ka ikaika o kahi kāne

ʻO kahi kāne e aloha ana me ke kaikamahine, a ʻike paha ia i ke kaikamahine a ka mea āna e makemake ai e hui aku a mālama mau, hiki iā ia ke hana e like me ka wimp - a noho mālie a kū ʻole wale i ka hana. A i ʻole e hoʻāʻo ai ʻo ia.

He aha ia e hoʻomaka ai i ka hoʻāʻo? E ʻike maoli nō ʻoe ia a ʻike!

E hoʻomanaʻo i ka mea nui - ka nui o kāu ʻano i ke kāne, akā inā ʻaʻole kūlike i ka pae o nā hōʻailona, a laila e lilo loa ka pilina.He mea koʻikoʻi loa ia e ʻike i ka like kūpono o kāu hōʻailona zodiac me ka hōʻailona kanaka. Hiki ke hana ma kēia ma ke kaomi ʻana ma ka pihi.

E hakakā ʻo ia e kamaʻilio me ʻoe, hoʻolilo i ka manawa me ʻoe, e hoʻokō i kāu mau makemake, e hoʻolohe iā ʻoe, a e hana i nā mea a pau e hilinaʻi ana iā ia - inā ʻoe e hoʻolohe wale iā ia.

O keia hooikaika a ikaika. ʻAʻole hoʻi he mea nui ʻole ka waiwai a ʻaʻole paha ke kanaka, he mea nui ka nui o kona hoʻāʻo ʻana ma ka kumu o nā kumuwaiwai i loaʻa iā ia i kēia manawa. Aʻo ia, no ke aha ʻoe e pono ai e hālāwai me ke kāne ke waiwai, akā waiwai, akā ʻaʻole ia e hāʻawi i ka pōʻino e pili ana iā ʻoe, a ʻike iā ʻoe he wahine hoʻokamakama maʻalahi, ʻaʻole ia e hele i ke kālā iā ʻoe a lilo i kālā, manawa a me nā kumuwaiwai ʻē aʻe iā ʻoe?

ʻ 5.lelo 5. Hoʻoikaika i kāu noi

Pehea ka pane ʻana o ke kāne i ka mea i nīnau aku iā ia no kahi mea? E hoʻokō ʻo ia i kāu noi, a makemake pahaʻo ia i ka manaʻo?

E ho'āʻo e nīnau iā ia no kahi mea, a hahai i ka hopena. Inā hoʻāʻo a ʻehā kāne paha, makemake paha iā ʻoe. ʻAʻohe āna i hana, a loaʻa wale nō ka ʻona no ka loaʻa ʻole o nā hopena - ʻoiai paha, he mea ʻole ʻole ʻoe iā ia.

ʻO kahi ala maʻalahi a me ka hopena e hōʻike ai i nā manaʻo o ke kāne. E hoʻohana naʻauao. ʻO ka mea nui, ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hoʻāʻo e kau i kāu mau pilikia āpau ma ke kāne ma mua o ka hoʻomaka ʻana o kahi pilina, a me ko lākou hāmeʻa - inā ʻaʻole e make ka lio, a hoʻoholo ʻo ia i ka mea o ka impoma āna e pono ai - ʻo ia ka lele koke ʻana.

Kohu 6. huaʻōlelo, ʻike, aloha

Me nā ʻōlelo aloha a me ka mahalo - pono ʻoe e makaʻala. Ma hoʻokahi lima - ʻae, hōʻike lākou i ka makemake o ke kāne iā ʻoe, a maopopo ka ʻohi ʻana iā ʻoe a makemake ʻoe e pū me ʻoe. ʻOiai hiki ʻole ke lilo i ke kāne i mea makemake i ka manaʻo o kahi kaikamahine i hoihoi ʻole iā ia.

Eia naʻe, ma kahi ʻē aʻe, ua ʻōlelo ʻia ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hoʻolohe ʻole ʻana i ke kāne! ʻAe, ʻo ia ka mea a ka mea e ʻōlelo ai, he mea like kēia: "blah blah blah." Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ʻaʻole pono ke ʻōlelo i kekahi mea! He mau ʻōlelo wale nō kēia, a aneane hiki i nā mea a pau ke ʻōlelo.

A he aha ka mea nui loa? He aha ka mea e hana ai ke kāne a me kāna mea e hana ai no ʻoe! Hōʻike hou wau - he hana ia no ʻoe, ʻaʻole e like me kēlā. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, inā e hana ana ʻo ia i kekahi mea no ka wahine ʻē, a nona iho - a he aha ka hoʻohana o ia?

No laila, pono e ʻike ʻia nā ʻōlelo a kekahi kāne me ka ʻakaʻaka a me ka ʻakaʻaka. Ke noʻonoʻo nei iaʻu iho, "E ʻōlelo, e ʻōlelo, akā e ʻike nā mea āu e hana ai i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo."

A e nānā hou aku - inā hana paha ke kanaka i kekahi mea maoli, a hoʻomaikaʻi iā ia no ia, a i ʻole kāna huaʻōlelo he huaʻōlelo ʻole ʻole, a lele ka lewa - ʻaʻole ia e hoʻokō pono i kāna mau ʻōlelo hoʻohiki. I kēia hihia, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka holo ʻana mai kēlā kāne. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ʻaʻole ia i lilo i kanaka maoli, ʻaʻole ia ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o kahi lā.
Ma ke ala, nui nā kāne he ʻoluʻolu loa, a hiki ke pani ʻia, akā ʻaʻole e hōʻole iā lākou. Hiki paha iā ia e lilo i kāne a makua kāne makua paha i ka wā e hiki mai ana, no ka mea, e hana nō ia, ʻaʻole ma ke kamaʻilio ʻana, a ninini i nā molula i loko o kou mau pepeiao mai nā huaʻōlelo maikaʻi a me nā pane.

Pauku 7. Ke hōʻike ʻia nei, helehelena a me ka hilahila

He paʻakikī maoli e hūnā i kāu makemake i kahi kanaka āu e makemake ai. Inā ʻoe e kamaʻilio nei me ke kanaka, a laila kūpaʻa ʻoe iā ʻoe ʻaʻole ke ʻano o ka maʻamau.

Hiki i kekahi manawa ke hoʻohilahila, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole kumu, i kekahi manawa i hele a hoʻoweliweli ʻia kona ʻano helehelena paha.

Nui a nā hōʻailona liʻiliʻi a ʻike paha, i ke ʻano o nā mana a me ke ʻano o ke ʻano ʻōpio, nāna e hoʻōla iā ʻoe - ʻaʻole ia he maʻalahi, a he leʻaleʻa makemake paha ʻo ia iaʻu, a manaʻo e aloha.

I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, he ikaika ka nui o nā kaikamāhine a keʻike nei i nā mea like i ka pae subconscious. He pilina wahine ka pilina, no laila pono paha ʻoe e kamaʻilio iki iki me ke kāne, a laila e maopopo loa nā mea āpau me ia wale nō. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e kamaʻilio, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i kekahi mau ʻaoʻao a ka lehulehu, a e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā kumuwaiwai hohonu ʻole.A e nānā i ke ʻano o ke kani kāne, a me ko lākou mau manaʻo.

Hoʻomaʻomaʻo 8. Polite a me ka lapaʻau

Inā 'huki nā kāne iā ʻoe i nā pigtail », a i ʻole kekahi mau' ōlelo hoʻohui, a laila e hōʻike ana i kona makemake nui, a laila he ʻano makahiki kēia. ʻO ke kāne maoli, inā makemake ʻo ia i ka wahine, e hana pū me ia a me ka palau.

ʻO ia, e hoʻomaopopo ke kanaka i kāu pono e hoʻomaʻamaʻa pololei a pololei me ʻoe, a nānā ʻoe i kēia mau hana. Akā naʻe, ʻaʻole kēia ka manaʻo e hoʻokuʻi ke kāne ma lalo o ka wahine, hoʻokaumaha a hoʻomaʻa i nā mea a pau. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, pono e paʻakikī kekahi kāne, me ka mea nui, a i kekahi manawa e hoʻoholo a hana maikaʻi ʻole, ʻaʻole e ʻae iā ʻoe e haʻalele.

ʻAʻole ke kanaka e makemake iā ʻoe e hana ma ke ʻano hoʻonaninani, akā ma ke ʻano e makemake ʻiʻo ʻoe iā ʻoe iho.

Palani 9. ʻO nā māhoe a me nā leʻakaʻa e nā hoaaloha

Eia kekahi inoa hōʻailona ʻē aʻe i makemake ai ke kanaka iā ʻoe. A eia ke ʻano o kāna mau hoaaloha. Hōʻike ia i ka poʻe ʻōpio i ko lākou manaʻo i nā hoaaloha, a ʻike paha nā hoaaloha i kā lākou ʻano hana, a hoʻomaopopo hoʻi i ke kumu.

I kēia hihia, inā ʻoe e kamaʻilio me ka hoaaloha o nā hoaaloha, ʻoiai paha, e hāʻule ana nā ʻano like ʻole a me nā hoʻohenehene a kou ʻaoʻao.

I kekahi manawa hiki ke hōʻino maikaʻi, i kekahi manawa ʻoi a maikaʻi ʻole. Akā i kekahi hihia - inā hele lākou, a laila paha ke kumu. Ua lilo paha nā hoa aloha i ke ʻano kupaianaha ʻo ua kāne lā, a ma mua hoʻi o kou ʻaoʻao - a "ʻike ʻia".

Inā e hana paha - he kakalila kēia nou no ka makemake o kahi kanaka. Hiki iā ʻoe ke kamaʻilio pololei me nā hoaaloha, akā e hoʻāʻo e hana me ka maikaʻi. No ka mea, hiki - hiki iā lākou ke hoʻokaʻa iā ia, a hāʻawi i kahi ʻano kuhi hewa, ʻano ʻano e like me kou makemake iā ia. A laila hiki ke hoʻomaka ke kāne me ke kūpono i ka maikaʻi, e aʻo ana e pili ana i kou makemake.

Kahaha 10. Inā makemake kekahi kanaka iā ʻoe - e ʻimi ʻo ia iā ʻoe

A ʻo ka hōʻailona hope loa a me ka huna, ʻo ia ka mea maʻalahi loa - a ma ka ʻoiaʻiʻo nō ke koʻikoʻi loa. Inā makemake kahi kanaka iā ʻoe, a laila ʻaʻole ʻoe e kahaha: "Pehea e hoʻomaopopo ai - makemake wau ʻaʻole makemake ʻole iaʻu?".

No ka mea ʻoiaʻiʻo ke kanaka maoli e hōʻike i kona mau manaʻo, hoʻomaka e mālama iā ʻoe a ʻimi iā ʻoe me kona ikaika a pau. E lanakila i nā pale, pilikia, pilikia. E mālama ʻoe iā ʻoe, hāʻawi i nā makana, e kono ma kahi ʻē.

I ka laulā, kahi kāne a kāne paha e aloha maoli ʻoe e hana! Mai noho ʻoe a noho kuhi wau iaʻu iho no ka mea he nani kēia a puʻuwai maikaʻi, a he mea līwī wau, no laila ʻaʻole wau e haʻi iā ia.

Ke hoʻomaka nei wau - inā ke ʻimi nei ʻoe i ka pane i ka nīnau - pehea e hoʻomaopopo ai, a laila me ka hopena kiʻekiʻe - ʻaʻole makemake nui ke kāne iā ʻoe. Hiki paha ke kani i ka hōʻino paha, a i ka hōʻino paha - akā he ʻoiaʻiʻo nō naʻe.

A i ʻole makemake iā ʻoe, akā, nāwaliwali loa nō ia a ʻano like me ke keiki, ma kahi o kona hōʻike ʻana iā ia ʻo ke kanaka. No ke aha hoʻi ʻoe e pono ai iā ia? Hilahila ʻo ia i hiki iā ʻoe a hoʻomaka e kamaʻilio, a ua hilahila paha e hoʻomaka i ka mālama ʻana iā ʻoe - a i ka wā i hoʻoulu ʻia ai ka poʻe gopnik iā ʻoe ma ke alo, e haʻalele nō ʻo ia a "hilahila"?

Makemake paha ʻoe e pili me kahi kāne maoli, ikaika a mālama a mālama ʻole paha i kahi hū ʻole? E noʻonoʻo iā ia.

A ʻo ka hiki nō ia i kou hoʻomaha a hoʻomaopopo i ka mea ʻaʻole pono e lawe i ka ʻauʻau wai e pili ana inā makemake kekahi iā ʻoe a ʻaʻole hoʻi, a laila paha, ʻo ke kāne paha ke kanaka āu e nani ʻoluʻolu loa, e hōʻoia nō lākou iā lākou iho! A laila e lilo ʻoe i 100% ka manaʻo nui ma kā lākou ʻāpana, no ka mea e maopopo ana ia!

E hoʻomanaʻo i ka mea nui: ʻaʻole pono ia e nīnau i ka nīnau "pehea e hoʻomaopopo ai i ke aloha a aloha paha ke kanaka iā ʻoe?" - ʻaʻole pono ia. No ka mea ʻo ke kanaka ma ka pilina e lilo i mau ʻaoʻao ikaika. Pono ʻo ia e ʻimi iā ʻoe, pono ʻo ia e hana i kahi mea e ʻike ai ʻoe, pono ia e hōʻike iā ia iho a me ke ʻano o ke kāne.

ʻO ʻoe, ma kou ʻaoʻao, e nānā pono i kāna ʻano - a e ʻae paha i ka hana maikaʻi a hōʻole paha i nā mea maikaʻi ʻole, e pale aku i nā ʻano hewa ʻole a kūpono ʻole e pili iā ʻoe iho. Pau kēlā! A e lawe ʻē i ka hoʻāhewa, inā loaʻa.

Inā ʻoe e alualu i waho i ke aloha noʻonoʻo i ke kāne ʻaʻole makemake iā ʻoe, hiki paha ke kiʻi iā ia a hoʻomaka i kahi pilina me ia. Akā ma kēia pilina, e kahakaha mau ʻoe i ka "lio" i pili i kou pilina, kahi e noho ai kāu kāne i kahi ʻoi, a hoʻomaha. Pono ʻoe i?

ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kūlohelohe, ke nānā aku, nānā i kou helehelena a me kou hiʻohiʻona - a i ʻole ke kāne a i ke kāne paha e mahalo ʻia kou ola, inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e nīnau iā ʻoe iho i ka nīnau - he makemake anei ʻo ia iaʻu? Ke maʻi nō ʻoe e aloha iā ʻoe - 100%!

Inā makemake ʻoe e hui pū me kāu kanaka aloha - pono ʻoe i ke kuhi inā pololei ʻoe i ka hōʻailona zodiac?

E ʻike i ka ʻae like ʻana me kahi kāne - ma ke kaomi ʻana ma ke pihi ma lalo iho nei:

Pehea e hoʻomaopopo ai e makemake ana kahi kāne kāne i nā hōʻailona nui

Nui nā hōʻailona nui e makemake ai ke kanaka iā ʻoe ma ke kula.

Hoʻololi maikaʻi. Ke makemake nei ke kāne iā ʻoe, e hoʻomaka ana kāna ʻano e hoʻololi. Hiki ke hoʻomaopopo ʻia e ka kamaʻilio a me ka hōʻoluʻolu. Ua lilo ʻo ia i kamaʻilio mau: hoʻomaka ʻo ia e kamaʻilio nui e pili ana iā ia iho, kaena ʻo ia e hoʻohanohano, ai ʻole, hoʻopili a lilo i hilahila a hilahila.

Kālekaʻi - He ʻōlelo ʻokoʻa kūikawā e kōkua ai i kekahi manawa ke hōʻike i ke ʻano a me nā manaʻo o kahi kanaka. E ho'āʻo e nānā iā ia: hiki ke hōʻike ʻia i kona ʻano ma ka paʻi ʻana. Hiki iā ia ke paʻi pinepine i kou lima, kou lauoho - he hōʻailona maopopo kēia e mālama pono nei iā ia. E hoʻāʻo pū nō ʻo ia e huli mau i kou kuhikuhi ma ke kula, ʻōkoke aʻa pinepine a kokoke kokoke. ʻO kāu hana ka nānā ʻana.

ʻO kahi nānā. E like me kāu e ʻike ai, ʻaʻohe wahaheʻe nā maka. E ho'āʻo e hālāwai me kona mau maka a hahai i kāna hana hou aʻe. Inā hui ʻole ʻo ia i kona mau maka, hiki i kēlā me ia ke kuhikuhi he mea hilahila ia, a i ʻole ʻole ona ʻano ʻole iā ʻoe. ʻAe ke aloha iā ʻoe e ʻae iā ʻoe mai kahi maka aku, e nānā ʻo ia iā ʻoe, akā huna pono.
Kāleka. ^ E Ha yM. Ke makemake nei ke kāne e leʻaleʻa i kahi kaikamahine, hoʻohiki ʻo ia i nā mea āpau e hoʻowalewale ai. Ke hoʻāʻo nei ʻo ia e ʻaʻahu i ke kāhiko hou, e hana i ka huluhulu kūpono, ke hoʻomaka nei e hoʻohana i nā mea ʻala a nā kāne e manaʻo ai.

Ke kamaʻilio ʻana me nā kaikamahine ʻē aʻe. I ka manawa pinepine, no ka makemake i ke kaikamahine āna e makemake ai a huki i ka manaʻo, hoʻomaka ke kanaka e hoʻonāukiuki iā ia. E hoʻāʻo ʻo ia e kamaʻilio hewa a lele me nā kaikamāhine ʻē aʻe i mea e hōʻala ai i nā manaʻo iā ia.

Inā like i ka manawa ke nānā aku nei ke kāne ma kou ala a ma hope o kou haʻalele ʻana ke kāpae i ke kamaʻilio ʻana me nā kaikamāhine, a laila he hōʻailona maopopo ia e hoʻowalewale ʻo ia i kāu mau manaʻo.

Hoʻonui kūlia. ʻO ka mea e makemake iā ʻoe e ʻohi i nā manaʻo a e ʻoluʻolu. Hiki i kēia ke hōʻike i nā ʻano nui. E huhū aku ʻo ia iā ʻoe, e pili ana, yank, ʻike hewa iā ʻoe, a i ʻole, a kāhea wale ʻia - kāhea ʻia ma ka inoa, noi no kekahi mea, noi, a i kekahi manawa kōkua.

Kaaʻi hopohopo. Aia kahi kūlana e makaʻu ai kahi kāne, hopohopo e hōʻike iā ia iho a hāʻawi i kona mau manaʻo, hoʻomaka e hūnā me lākou a hōʻike i ka hemahema nui, i kekahi manawa he hana hoʻowahāwahā wale nō. Maanei, ʻimi e makaʻala hou aku, hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻike wiwoʻi a noi aku i ke kumu no kēia ʻano.

Pehea e hoʻomaopopo ai e makemake ana ka pen pals iā ʻoe

Ua paʻa ikaika ka Pūnaewele i loko o ka nohona o nā kānaka a ua lilo wale ia i kumu o nā ʻike, akā he ala maikaʻi loa ia e ʻike ai i ke kamaʻāina a me ke kamaʻilio ʻana. Nui nā ala e hoʻomaopopo ai inā makemake ʻoe i ke kanaka peni iā ʻoe.

Inā kākau pinepine kāu kāne iā ʻoe, e hoʻouna i nā ʻano paʻi a me ke mele, i ka manawa pūnaewele, a me ka wikiwiki e makemake iā ʻoe i kahi pō maikaʻi. - Pau kēia mau mea e pili ana i kona makemake e kamaʻilio pū me ʻoe.

ʻO ke ala maikaʻi loa e ʻike e pili ana i kāna mau ʻano aloha, ʻo ka mālama pono ʻana i kāna mea e kākau ai a me keʻano o kāna ʻano e hoʻouna ai i nā mele. Ma ka leka uila hiki iā ʻoe ke kuhi i ka nui o kona makemake iā ʻoe.

Inā hōʻike ʻo ia i ka nānā ʻana a me ka mālama ʻana, makemake i ka manawa i hele ai kou lā a ma ke ʻano āu i noho ai - a laila he hōʻailona maopopo kēia ʻaʻole ia he mea pili ʻole iā ʻoe.

Mahalo i kamaʻilio pūnaewele, ʻike ka poʻe i kēlā me kēia. Kahi kamaʻāina like ia, e ulu ana i kamaʻilio, hele pinepine i ka lā ola.

Pehea e hoʻomaopopo ai e ka makaʻala e aloha ke kanaka iā ʻoe

E like me kā lākou e ʻōlelo nei: "ʻO nā maka he aniani o ka ʻuhane", no laila ke nānā ʻana hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻoholo i ka mea a ke kanaka e loaʻa ai. ʻO ka maʻamau, inā makemake ke kāne i ke kaikamahine, ke nānā mau nei ʻo ia i ke kumu e nānā aku ai iā ia.

Akā pehea ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo ai i ke nānā ʻana, makemake paha ʻoe i kahi kanaka? E ho'āʻo e nānā i kekahi no 1-2 kekona, e paʻa ana i kou mau maka. Inā ʻaʻole nānā ʻole iā ia, ʻakaʻaka - a laila makemake maoli ʻoe iā ʻoe. A haʻalele ke kāne iā ia, ʻo ia ke hilahila iā ʻoe, a ʻaʻole pili ʻole iā ʻoe.

E nānā i kona nānā ʻana iā ʻoe i ke kamaʻilio ʻana. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ʻike nui ke ʻano o ke kāne i ke aloha a pane ʻoi aku i kāu mau nīnau ma mua o nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe.

Pehea e ʻike ai inā makemake kekahi kanaka iā ʻoe ma ke kula

Inā makemake ʻoe i kahi kanaka mai ke kula a ʻaʻole ʻoe i ʻike i kou ʻano no ʻoe, e hoʻāʻo e nānā iā ia. E nānā i kona nānā ʻana iā ʻoe, pehea kāna kamaʻilio ʻana me ʻoe. E ho'āʻo ma kahi hoʻomaha e hōʻike i nā hōʻailona e nānā iā ia. E kiʻi iā ia.

E wehewehe pū e makemake iā ʻoe. ʻO nā poʻe Guys ke aloha i nā koi, no kēia mea e hāʻawi iā lākou i ka hilinaʻi. He hilahila lākou i kēia makahiki a ua hoʻohana e hūnā i ko lākou manaʻo. Inā manaʻo ʻoe e makemake ʻoe iā ʻoe, e hoʻāʻo e lawe i kāu kumu.

Akā inā he paʻa ʻole ke kūlana, a ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻike i kona ʻano e mālama ai iā ʻoe, e hoʻāʻo e kāhea iā ia e kamaʻilio. E ho'āʻo e hoʻi me ia, a i ʻole ʻo ia wale i ka papa.

E nānā i kāna mea e kamaʻilio ai ʻo ia. Hiki iā ia ke hūnā ma kona mau manaʻo, hōʻike i ka hopohopo, a hiki ke hiʻi i kona mau maka, hilahila a noho mālie, no laila e nānā iā ia.

Pehea e ʻike ai i kahi kāne e makemake nui ai iā ʻoe - nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo

Inā hoʻoholo ʻoe e ʻōleka i kahi kāne e pili ana i kou mau manaʻo, a ʻaʻole maopopo ʻoe pehea e hana ai, e hoʻāʻo kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo:

Hōʻikeʻike a mālama mālama. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ke ʻano o ka nānā a me kahi ʻaleʻa i kuhikuhi ʻia ma kāna kuhikuhi. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e kamaʻāina i ke kanaka, e hoʻāʻo e ʻai leo iā ia i kekahi lā a e ʻakaʻaka iā ia. Hāʻawi kēia i kahi manawa e lilo ai i ka kamaʻāina a hoʻokokoke pono.

E hōʻike i kou aloha ma ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana iā ia. Hāʻawi i nā koi. Akā, mai hana pio!

E ho'āʻo e kākoʻo iā ia i kēlā me kēia kūlana. ʻO ka mālama ʻana a me ke kākoʻo aloha he ala maikaʻi loa ia e hoʻokokoke aku ai i kahi e kokoke mai iā ʻoe.

E ho'āʻo e hoʻokokoke iā ia (e noho ma ka papaʻaina, hoʻi me ka home a i ʻole ma kahi huakaʻi). Akā, mai kau ʻia!

E hoʻohana i ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa. Lawe mau ka poʻe Jokes i nā kānaka. E akaakaʻaka, akā he hoʻāpono loa. ʻAʻole pono kahi hoʻopunipuni a me nā wahaheʻe i kā lākou ʻano.

E kamaʻilio pinepine aku iā ia. E ʻike i kona leʻaleʻa. E hoʻomaka i kahi kūkākūkā ma nā kumuhana e makemake nui iā ia. Hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo i ka ʻike pili pono e pili ana i kēia kumuhana a hōʻike i kou ʻike. ʻO ka hoihoi maʻamau e hoʻohui pū ai i nā kānaka. A he mea nui loa inā he kanaka e kamaʻilio e kamaʻilio. Pēlā e hoʻomaʻemaʻe iā ʻoe iho.

E lilo ʻoe. ʻAʻole pono ke pāʻani. No ka hōʻoluʻolu ʻana i kekahi kanaka, pono wale ʻoe i ke kūlohelohe a i ʻole hoʻi. He waiwai nui a hoihoi ʻole ia.

Inā he kaikamahine wiwo ʻole a hoʻoholo ʻoe, hiki iā ʻoe ke wehe malū, akā i ke ʻano pilikino (ʻoi aku paha ma waho o ke kula), e hōʻike iā ia i kou aloha a me kou mau manaʻo. Akā, mai kali e hoʻokau i kahi mea hoʻi. E ʻae aʻoiaʻiʻo nō.

Pehea e hoʻomaopopo ai e makemake ke aloha kāne iā ʻoe inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e kamaʻilio

Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe ʻike i ka ʻōpio, a ʻaʻole hoʻi ʻoe maopopo pehea e maopopo ai inā makemake ʻo ia iā ia, e hoʻāʻo e kamaʻilio mua iā ia. E hoʻomaka me ka hoʻolauleʻa ʻana, a i kēlā me kēia manawa, aloha a ʻōlelo paha iā ia, e hāʻawi iā ia i kahi ʻakaʻaka a he maikaʻi.

ʻO kēia ʻano ka mea kūpono loa e hoʻomaka ai i ke kamaʻilio. Ma hope o kēlā, e ho'āʻo e hoʻokokoke iā ia. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hele pū no ka ʻaina awakea, a i ʻole ka home. E ʻae kēia ʻano e ʻae ʻoe wale nō, a no laila, e aʻo maikaʻi ʻoi aku kekahi i kekahi.

E hana wiwo ʻole a lawe i ka hoʻomaka i loko o kou mau lima, no ka mea, he wahi hilahila a hilahila nā kāne.

Ma hope o kāu makemake nui i kahi kāne a hoʻohaualoha me ia, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaka e hōʻike iā ia i nā hōʻailona o ka nānā, e hiki iā lākou ke hōʻike iā lākou iho i ke ʻano o ka mālama a me nā ʻōlelo hoʻopiʻi. A laila - nānā ʻoe i ke ʻano o kona nānā ʻana iā ʻoe, a pehea kona hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana iā ʻoe. A hana!

Pehea e hoʻomaopopo ai e makemake ana ke kaikamahine iā ʻoe e 7 mau hōʻailona

Inā makemake ʻoe i kahi kaikamahine, ʻaʻole ia he mea ma kahi o ke kula a i ʻole ke kulanui, a makemake ʻoe e ʻike i kāna mea āu iā ʻoe, e hoʻāʻo e nānā iā ia. Hoʻololi mau nā kaikamahine i ka wā a lākou e makemake ai i kekahi, a hiki ʻole ke hūnā i ko lākou mau manaʻo.

No laila, eia kekahi mau hōʻailona ʻelua e makemake ai ke kaikamahine iā ʻoe:

1. ʻO ke kaikamahine āu e makemake ai e mālama mau iā ʻoe. Hiki iā ia ke hōʻike i kona nānā ʻana i nā ʻano like ʻole: e hoʻāʻā, ʻeha, hōʻeha wale, a hoʻolilo paha, e hoʻāʻo pinepine e hoʻomaka i kahi kamaʻilio pū me ʻoe, ʻoliʻoli, hauʻoli a hana i kahi mahalo.

2. ʻO kekahi manawa hāʻawi i kahi kaikamahine i kona mau manaʻo me ke kōkua o kāna paʻi. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ua ʻike ʻia e kī ʻole ʻole ke kaikamahine i ke kāne inā ʻaʻole pili ʻole ʻo ia iā ia, no laila, inā makemake ʻoe iā ʻoe, e ʻimi ʻo ia i nā ala e hoʻopā aku iā ʻoe a hoʻonāukiuki i kou kaʻawale.

3. ʻO kahi ʻano. ʻO ke kaikamahine āu e makemake ai ke nānā ʻokoʻa iā ʻoe. E hele mālie ke kiʻi a hoʻokipa. E nānā mau ʻo ia iā ʻoe, no laila e hahai iā ia.

4. Ke kamaʻilio ʻana. E hoʻolohe i nā mea āna e nīnau aku ai iā ʻoe. Inā hōʻike ʻo ia i ka hoihoi a nīnau i nā nīnau he nui, a laila ʻikeʻo ia iā ʻoe.

5. ʻO ke kaikamahine e makemake iā ʻoe, e ʻimi ʻoe i ke kumu e kāhea ai, e hui ʻia. Nāna e kākau iā ʻoe sms, a i ʻole kamaʻilio pinepine me ʻoe ma ka pūnaewele.

6. Kākoʻo mai kāna mai, hoʻonui nui, hopohopo - hōʻike ʻia kēia mea āpau ʻaʻole ʻo ia e aloha ʻoe iā ʻoe.

Inā manaʻo maoli ke kaikamahine a aloha a aloha paha, he mea maʻalahi ke hoʻoholo ma ke ʻano o ka mea iā ia. Hōʻike nā maka i ka mea e manaʻo ai ke kanaka, no laila e makaʻala.

E like me ka mea maʻamau, hōʻike ke kanaka i kona aloha

Inā makemake kekahi kanaka iā ʻoe, a laila e hoʻomaopopo koke ʻoe i kēia mai nā hōʻailona aʻe:

ʻAeʻo ia i kāu helu kelepona a pehea ʻoe e ʻike ai ma VK. Inā e hālāwai ana ma kahi ʻoihana pūnaewele, ʻo ia e hoʻomaka i kahi hālāwai. ʻO ia paha, ma hope o ke kamaʻilio pilikino, me ke nīnau ʻole i kekahi nīnau hou, ʻike ʻia kāna ʻaoʻao i VK iā ia iho - he ʻano akaka kēia hoʻi kona ʻano.
Mau mau ʻoe i nā maka iā ʻoe, ma ka hui pū ʻana i kahi hale, a ma ka hale ʻimi a i ʻole ma ka hele. Ke hoʻāʻo ʻo ia e nānā i kou mau maka. I kēia hihia, hiki koke iā ia ke nānā aku, mālie ke ʻano.
ʻAʻole ia he maʻi iki, akā ʻo ke ʻano like ʻole e hiki ke hōʻike pū i kahi ʻōpio e makemake iā ʻoe. ʻAʻole pahaʻo ia e maopopo i ka mea e ʻōlelo aku ai i ka makemake nui iā ʻoe a makaʻu wale paha e kamaʻilio i kekahi mea naʻaupō, no laila ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hoʻāʻo e hoʻomaka i kahi kamaʻilio pū me ʻoe. Ma ke ʻano he kānāwai, ʻokoʻa paha kahi kāne i loko o kēlā mau ʻano i ka ʻoihana, akā inā ke waiho wale ʻia ʻoe, e hoʻāʻo ʻo ia e hōʻike iā ia iho ma kahi ʻē.
Makemake au iā ʻoe e ʻoluʻolu a hoʻomaha i kona alo, a no ia mea ua kāhea ʻo ia i kāna ʻimi āpau e kōkua ai. Inā i kēlā hanana i kekahi hui, a, i waena o nā mea ʻē aʻe, makemake paha ke kanaka ʻōpiopio e hōʻoia i kona mau maka i kou mau maka, e hōʻike ana nō paha ʻo ia ka "ʻuhane o ke hui."
Inā ʻae kekahi ʻo ka hoaloha i ka hōʻino a hoʻowahāwahā ʻole iā ʻoe, e ʻoluʻolu ke kanaka ʻōpiopio i kēia, me ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e hoʻololi i ke kamaʻilio ma ke ʻano. E hiki paha iā ʻoe ke hoʻokuʻi iki ʻole aku i ka lehulehu a i ʻole kekahi mea ʻē aʻe e hoʻāʻo e hoʻomaka i kahi kamaʻilio pū me ʻoe - ʻoiaʻiʻo nō paha, ʻo ke kanaka āu e makemake ai e hoʻāʻo e komo i loko o ke kūlana, me ka hoʻomanawanui ʻole e ʻehaʻeha iā ʻoe a i ʻole "hōʻole" i kahi kūpono hou he pā.
Ke haohaʻo nei ʻo ia iā ʻoe he aloha a pehea ka lōʻihi o ka pilina hope. E ʻoluʻolu paha paha ʻo ia i ka unobtrusively, nīnau i nā nīnau pilikino. ʻO kahi laʻa, hoʻomaka ʻo ia e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kekahi wahi maʻa mau, e hoʻohui ana: "E hele ʻoe me kāu kāne." ʻO ia, i ka pane, ke manaʻo nei ʻo ia e lohe inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i loko o kahi pilina aloha.

Pehea e hoʻoikaika ai i ke aloha

1. E makemake iā ia. E nīnau no ke ʻano o kona lā, ke ʻano o ke mele āna i makemake ai. E wehewehe i ka mana kiʻiʻoniʻoni āna e makemake ai, i nā mea āna e aloha ai, ma nā wahi āna e makemake ai e kipa.

2. Ke hālāwai me ka mea o ke aloha, e hoʻonaninani e nānā meʻe. Mai ʻaʻa i kou mau lole, akā e koi ʻoe i kou ʻaoʻao maikaʻi loa. Mai poina e pili ana i nā kiko'ī - manicure, kaila, ka mea kūpono kūpono. Inā e kamaʻilio ana kāu kamaʻilio ma ka Pūnaewele, a laila e hoʻāʻo e hoʻohui i nā kiʻi ʻoi loa ka pōmaikaʻi pinepine.

3. E hāʻawi pinepine aku iā ia i nā ʻōlelo hoʻopō. E hoʻomaikaʻi i kāna makemake kuʻina mele, ka ʻikepili waho (ka ʻulaʻula, ka ʻili o ka maka, ke kiʻi, a me nā mea like)

4. E hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka wā e kamaʻilio pū ai me ia - ʻakaʻaka, hōʻike i ke aloha i ke kumuhana āna i hoʻopā ai, mai hoʻopā iā ia a mai haʻalele ʻole ʻia.

5. Hōʻike iā ia he kanaka akamai ʻole ʻoe i hoʻohana ʻole ʻia ma ke keʻa. E hoʻopaʻa inoa no kekahi mau papa, nā papa kumu, nā ʻenehana hōʻeuʻeu haumāna a i ʻole ka hula. E ulu pinepine ma nā wahi like ʻole, e haʻi nei i kēia i ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kahi ʻōpiopio.

6. E haʻi iā ia ʻaʻole pili ʻoe i kekahi pilina. Inā makemake ʻoe i ke kāne āu e makemake ai e hana i nā hana ikaika loa, hele pāʻani wale me ia. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole kēia ka manaʻo e hānai i nā poʻe pā ʻē aʻe. E hōʻike wale i ke kanaka ʻo ia ka mea makemake nui iā ʻoe.

7. E hōʻike iā ia e nānā, akā mai pale ʻole, nānā i ke ana. Mai kēia manawa i ka manawa, hiki iā ʻoe ke makemake i kāna mau mea i loko o ka VK, akā inā ʻaʻole ia e hoʻomohala maoli i ke kumuhana, a laila pili iā ia. Hōʻike ʻo ia iā ia ʻaʻole he pili ʻole iā ʻoe, akā hele ʻole ʻoe e hoʻohewa.

8. Inā paha e like ʻoe iā ia ke nānā iki aku iā ʻoe, a hiki i nā mea ikaika aku, mai haʻi iā ia e haʻi aku iā ia, ʻaʻole hoʻi e haʻi i nā kuhi a me nā kaumaha. ʻAʻole paha ia e ʻike ua makemake ʻoe i nā ʻano hana hoʻopunipuni hou aku iā ia, a hiki iā ʻoe ke kuhikuhi i kēia me ke ʻole hōʻino, akā me ka puʻe ʻana.

9. Kipa akula iā ia i kahi - i loaʻa wale i ka kofe i loko o kahi hale kō, ma ke kipi, ma ke ʻano hau hau a i ʻole no ka hele ma ka paka. E ʻōlelo he nui nā hola manuahi, a he manaʻo ʻē kāu e kelepona aku a kākau iā ia e pili ana i kēia. Ke aʻo ʻia inā i kēia manawa ʻaʻole e minamina ke kāne me kekahi mea.

Pehea e maopopo ai ʻaʻohe kumu pane

E haʻi pololei. E kāhea iā ia no ke kamaʻilio pololei a hōʻoia i kou aloha e hele ʻole ma mua o kahi pilina.

Haikaua makemake lōʻihi ʻoe i kekahi ʻōpio ʻē aʻe, a makemake ʻoe e kūkulu i kahi pilina me kekahi kanaka.

Mai hōʻike iā ia e nānā, pane ʻoluʻolu i kāna mau nīnau a maloʻo, mai noi i nā nīnau kū'ē.

I nā pilina pūnaewele Mai pane koke i kāna mau ʻelele. E kali iki, a hāʻawi wale ʻia ka pane monosyllabic a ʻaʻole i pane iki inā paha, ma ke kānāwai, ʻaʻole i loaʻa i kāna nīnau kāna nīnau. Mai kākau iā ia ma mua.

Eʻoluʻolu e pāʻani me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ʻōpio'ōpio me ia, a kamaʻilio paha no ke kāne āu e makemake ai.

E hōʻole i nā hālāwai i kahi ʻē. Inā e hui paha i kahi hui, a laila mai manaʻo nui iā ia ma mua o nā mea ʻē aʻe.

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